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To feel a bit pissed off about this

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Ringaring · 05/01/2021 04:02

My mum said she was doing her will and asked us whether there was anything in particular we wanted of hers. Shes a pragmatist.

My sister jumped right in there and said she wanted her engagement ring and her eternity ring. She then messaged me to say she had left me the wedding ring. Confused

Leaving aside the issue of value here I felt a bit put out because both the rings she "chose" are really pretty and wearable, whereas the wedding ring is more old fashioned and you would never wear it.

I just let it go because it felt so icky to start an argument about this and at the end of the day whatever really. But I cant help but feel weird about it.

Another thing is my sister is married and has her own rings whereas I dont think I ever will. But I'm not sure that's fair or relevant.

Would you be pissed off?

OP posts:
steppemum · 05/01/2021 14:05

3 rings, 3 kids, one each.

That it fair. But of course it is up to your mum

IamMaz · 05/01/2021 14:47

@ Vermeil

It was only a letter of wishes - not a bequest as such....
I just knew I wouldn't receive them...
BIL would only have said that he never found them to give them to me, so I decided that the moral high ground was a better position!!! I'll not forget though.

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