There are 2.2 million over 80s. 1 million vaccinations carried out so far, maybe half NHS/care workers and half over 80s (I'd possibly say more have gone to the care workers but I don't know the stats). So let's say if 500,000 over 80s have been done, so what has happened is it's been a lottery as to whether the over 80s have had it - who picked up the phone, who's name is A to J alphabetically (however it's been given out in that area). So yes, your parents (the lucky over 80s who now have some protection) may well feel disappointed that they are not getting their second dose quite yet, but I feel much happier that my 90 year grandmother (one of those 1.7 million over 80s who still haven't had any vaccination) may well now get that first dose much sooner and have some protection instead of non.
YOU may disagree with the science in your expert opinion (and of course the manufacturers are never going to say, 'no go ahead and only give one dose') but a lot of experts agree with the mathematicaly probable outcome of giving double the number of the most vulnerable people protection from one dose to keep them from being hospitalised (and it has been shown in the research from the manufacturers that one dose does give a lot of protection).
If there we 50 million double doses of the vaccine in the uk right now, then I might agree with you. But we're also working with limited stock, which is a very good reason for rolling it out as one dose for as many as possible right now.
As it happens, I'm not in the UK at the moment. I'm in a country that only started vaccinating with Pfizer a few days ago, and will not even approve Oxford until the end of Jan, so even if they carry on with their double dose policy, they'll still be well behind the UK, and no one here will have had a double dose anyway until the end of Jan at the earliest.
For your own mental wellbeing, I'd try a shift in mindset to:
- how lucky I am that my parents now have some protection from serious illness, when many other over 80s and younger CEV don't even have an appointment yet
- how lucky I am to be in UK where the vaccinations stared much earlier than other countries
- it's not medically dangerous to have one dose in terms of getting the vaccine so it would be ridiculous if I didn't even take the one dose being offered to me free of charge at the earliest possible time I can get it
- whoever have made this decision have done so purely on the basis that they (in their combined EXPERT opinions) believe that this is the very best way to save the most lives and keep as many people out of ICU as possible. I'm very anti-conservative policy in general and don't for one minute believe that the politicians care one bit about my family, but I do believe that they (and the medical experts who have led on this decision) want the same thing - and that's for my family members to not end up in hospital with Covid.
A lot of other countries are looking at delaying the second vaccine- they just haven't made a decision yet because they're only just giving out the first.