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To hate people saying they where “gifted” something

39 replies

Bixs · 24/12/2020 17:36

Where did this even come from?

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earlydoors42 · 24/12/2020 17:36

I totally agree!!!

pinkyredrose · 24/12/2020 17:37

I hate when people use 'where' instead of 'were' Grin

OmarListening · 24/12/2020 17:38

"Were"

Bixs · 24/12/2020 17:39

@pinkyredrose

I hate when people use 'where' instead of 'were' Grin
Typo, I have fat fingers! 😁
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HettieHelvetica · 24/12/2020 17:39

YADNBU. You are given something, and you give something. "Gifted" makes me shudder.

alecguinnessgenuineclass · 24/12/2020 17:41

I completely agree with you OP. It's a super annoying Instagrammism. #gifted meaning "I'm posting this because I was bribed to".

What happened to "given"?! Hitches bosom

Topseyt · 24/12/2020 17:45

In legal and financial terms it is used to clarify that money given is a gift rather than a loan that the giver is expecting to be repaid.

If you have gifted the money you gave it as a gift. You didn't "give" it as a loan.

It isn't a new term.

perditasugarplum · 24/12/2020 17:47

Personally I don't mind 'were gifted' but 'where gifted' is rather annoying when it's in a post that is critical of the way somebody uses English.

StillCoughingandLaughing · 24/12/2020 17:49

I think people who are ‘gifted’ things are the same people who use ‘yourself’, ‘myself’ etc.

CayrolBaaaskin · 24/12/2020 17:49

Gifted is used in tax law to signify something was given with no consideration. It’s not new.

TooTrueToBeGood · 24/12/2020 17:50

Typo, I have fat fingers! 😁

How fat do your fingers have to be to accidently hit the "h" key after the "w"? Do you have hands or hoofs?

Merry Christmas xxx

Topseyt · 24/12/2020 17:56

@CayrolBaaaskin

Gifted is used in tax law to signify something was given with no consideration. It’s not new.
That is what I was trying to say, but much more succinctly put. It is an accepted legal term in the financial world and is not new.

I don't see why people get het up over it. It is perfectly correct. That is the context I would use it in. I would not use it in other contexts such as giving Christmas or birthday presents.

Newkitchen123 · 24/12/2020 17:57

@perditasugarplum

Personally I don't mind 'were gifted' but 'where gifted' is rather annoying when it's in a post that is critical of the way somebody uses English.
Indeed
Bixs · 24/12/2020 17:57

@TooTrueToBeGood

Typo, I have fat fingers! 😁

How fat do your fingers have to be to accidently hit the "h" key after the "w"? Do you have hands or hoofs?

Merry Christmas xxx

I don’t know how I did it but typing whilst eating mince pies!
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StillCoughingandLaughing · 24/12/2020 17:59

Gifted is used in tax law to signify something was given with no consideration. It’s not new.

So people keep saying - but that’s a completely different context.

Bixs · 24/12/2020 17:59

@perditasugarplum

Personally I don't mind 'were gifted' but 'where gifted' is rather annoying when it's in a post that is critical of the way somebody uses English.
Point taken. But there’s a difference between someone accidentally typing the wrong word and someone deliberately using the word “gifted”
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Paintedmaypole · 24/12/2020 18:05

Gifted is so pretentious, given will do unless you are in court or in a solicitors office. See also "hosted".

TeachesOfPeaches · 24/12/2020 18:08

HATE IT. Angry

rc22 · 24/12/2020 18:11

I feel the same. To me, gift is very much a noun and not a verb!!

cattreats · 24/12/2020 18:12

I'm mystified why this irritates people so much. Gift as a verb has been used in this context for at least the last 500 years.

I suspect what people don't like is the use of the passive.

flowery · 24/12/2020 18:13

@Topseyt

In legal and financial terms it is used to clarify that money given is a gift rather than a loan that the giver is expecting to be repaid.

If you have gifted the money you gave it as a gift. You didn't "give" it as a loan.

It isn't a new term.

Used in that context, no problem. But when people talk about their mum having “gifted” them a jumper for Christmas, or about the makeup they “gifted” their niece for her birthday, that’s different.
DuesToTheDirt · 24/12/2020 18:13

It's a verb in Scotland.

sbhydrogen · 24/12/2020 18:20

Gifted deposit (for a house): yes, gifted a present: no.

Hawkins001 · 24/12/2020 18:39

Learnt something new about the term gifted, I guess it prevents cases
Like you see on JJ where they say they loaned it rather than gifted it.

ChronicallyCurious · 24/12/2020 18:43

Depends on the context? If someone gave me a Christmas present I wouldn’t say it was gifted that sounds ridiculous. However I have an Instagram account with a fair amount of followers and sometimes I’m sent things to review by companies and if I posted a photo of it I would write ‘gifted’ in the caption. If someone gave me a deposit for a house I’d probably say gifted too.