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To hate people saying they where “gifted” something

39 replies

Bixs · 24/12/2020 17:36

Where did this even come from?

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coldwaterfeed · 24/12/2020 18:44

YABU for posting the eleventy billionth thread about this OP 🙄

VettiyaIruken · 24/12/2020 18:45

I see your 'gifted' and I raise you 'sourced'

VestaTilley · 24/12/2020 19:14

YANBU. It drives me mad and I never use it.

The correct terms are given or donated!

flowery · 24/12/2020 19:16

@VettiyaIruken

I see your 'gifted' and I raise you 'sourced'
And “curated” when used by people who don’t work in a museum.
Roominmyhouse · 24/12/2020 19:17

I hate it too!

AuntieStella · 24/12/2020 19:19

It's been used as a verb (for any item, not just the more technical sense given above, but common parlance) since the 1600s

Yours,
Pedant with an OED

AnneTwackie · 24/12/2020 19:24

I hate it! And ‘a new way to period’ and ‘sleep your baby’ ugh

StillCoughingandLaughing · 24/12/2020 19:27

Yours, Pedant with an OED

🤮🤮🤮

Kimakima · 24/12/2020 19:32

It’s as bad as “gotten “

Teapot13 · 24/12/2020 19:36

Surprised no one has called it an Americanism yet. . .

RubaiyatOfAnyone · 24/12/2020 19:44

I actually quite like it. It signifies a difference between something given permanently and intentionally as a gift, and something just handed over to you which may or may not have other circumstances to it.

My DH gave me the chopped onion whilst i was cooking because i was busy stirring; my friend at school gave me measles; my grandfather’s side of the family gave me the gene for red hair; school gave me detention; the shopkeeper gave me my change. None of these are gifts. Gifted has a much lower zeugma rate and so seems more precise.

I don’t actually use it but now i’ve thought about it and seen how much it annoys people i’m going to start.

NoProblem123 · 24/12/2020 19:47

‘’Hands or Hooves ?’’ GrinGrin
YANBU - gifted, ughh.

flowery · 24/12/2020 20:01

@AnneTwackie

I hate it! And ‘a new way to period’ and ‘sleep your baby’ ugh
What do those mean? Never heard either of them!
AnneTwackie · 24/12/2020 20:07

@flowery it’s the terminology used by lullaby trust, ‘sleep your baby on his back’ and an ad I keep seeing for period pants saying ‘a new way to period’, drives me mad!

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