What is an instant turn on to you?

[Heavenly44]

Can be anything

Can't lie a six pack

Being genuinely funny

Interesting thread ☺️ Is there a dadsnet in here which can tell me what turns a man on? I know what I like but haven’t the foggiest anymore what he likes!!

@MerlinTheWizard

Interesting thread ☺️ Is there a dadsnet in here which can tell me what turns a man on? I know what I like but haven’t the foggiest anymore what he likes!!

Bloody good idea!!

Whilst there are some things in common (forearms) there is so many suggestions here that are different. Pot for every lid indeed.

Some of these ‘ideals’ would horrify me but yes to the intelligent, glasses, studious look of Gary Go @Firstruleofsoupover

There are/ not is🤭

@coronafiona

Kindness, generosity and consideration

After many years of not having a DH that prioritises these three things... I would definitely say THIS.

But I also love a strong set of manly, veiny hands with well kept nails.

Oh, my. Guys...I'm an old woman. I'm like an old dog now...I don't chase the cars anymore, although I occasionally bark as one goes by. And you have no clue how happy I am to be out of it entirely.

What turns me on now is a nice set of whiskers and a deep purr.

Breathing! 🤣🤣🤣

Intelligence, kindness and humour. Doesn't matter what they look like if they have those 3 things.

I love a man with nice aftershave.

@lasttangoinscunthorpe

DP is a police officer. When he comes home from work in uniform with a short sleeved shirt on, forearms bare...

Genuine question, is the rubbing thighs thing just because of Reeves and Mortimer or is it something you feel naturally?

@MerlinTheWizard

Interesting thread ☺️ Is there a dadsnet in here which can tell me what turns a man on? I know what I like but haven’t the foggiest anymore what he likes!!

There's a turn off thread and I suspect plenty of those are unisex. I'm afraid I have a lot of them; vegetarian (sort of), bad teeth, non driver (why?) and don't like pets. I'll get my coat now.

Nice smell. Nice arms. Good height. Men in glasses too mmmm.

Guys with high foreheads! Nice teeth! And a fit and muscular body!!! Not much really!!😀

Long thighs! When I’m sitting next to a man and his les are long and lean...

Just a hint of nice aftershave, not too much
Fit body, a ready smile, and intelligence.

@ginandwineandbaileys

What’s a ready smile????

Men who lurk on mumsnet - what’s on your list? You, too @SimonJT🙂

A muscly back or a Geordie accent, preferably both!

Nice hands and an actual interest in me.

[quote Guylan]@peaceanddove, an entirely understandable request ;)[/quote]
DH manfully rose to the occasion x

@Bloodypunkrockers , absolutely!!! I thought I was a bit nuts thinking this!!

Fortunately for DH, he has a really good sense of rhythm and looks good on the dancefloor.

I think by our age, @peaceanddove, we need to hope that rolling around like a couple of porpoises becomes a category in Strictly .

It's the oft-repeated sense of humour for me, I'd say. And a bit of tenderness 🎵.

Neck tattoos

Men who can sing.

I give you ... a man who's good with cats.