What is an instant turn on to you?

[Heavenly44]

Can be anything

Can't lie a six pack

So so many.

Rolled up shirt sleeves with nice forearms. Large arms and shoulders. Lopsided smile.

I like large and hairy men. Not necessarily large as in ripped or large as in obese but just big build.

@KarlKennedysDurianFruit

Humour, intelligence, compassion, understands equality/feminism, height, dark hair, facial hair.

Sounds like Freddie Mercury was your ideal date?

Doing any kind of home maintenance. Especially involving a drill.

A very responsible job (Doctor, pilot etc)
Tall
Confident
Funny
Manly Neck 😁

Tall, muscular with a Scots or Irish accent.
Dark hair and blue eyes.
Well fitting suits

Big hands
Big thighs
Tall
Strong looking

Nice smile, nice bum, funny personality shame ive not met a man with all 3 yet 🤣

A kilt

Another one for Jewish. Nearly everyone I've ever fancied has been Jewish. Glasses pretty much mandatory. Skinnier the better. Gary Go is a lovely example. Jewish men often have super hair, and a sort of mental independence/strength I can't describe well, but it's verrry sexy to me.

Forearms, not a quiver on the ECG machine for me. Strange but so interesting to read about this.

@merryhouse

lanky skinny geeky types with a Scottish pointy face

(basically I'm a sucker for David Tennant )

...but apart from that, the main thing is The Ability To Do Something - irrelevant what it is, really: if I'm spending time with a group of people it's inevitable that I start to fancy the one who's best at the activity (even if I start by considering him definitely Not My Type).

lanky skinny geeky types with a Scottish pointy face

Like him too.

Irish accent
Sandalwood aftershave
Glasses
Neatly trimmed beard not horrific wild hipster thing

Like this @Firstruleofsoupover?

I can see some appeal😉

Physically - deep chocolate brown eyes, wavy chestnut colour hair, strong forearms, physically.

Character - compassion and curiosity for events and issues that affect humankind.

That strip of bare flesh below the belly button but above the shorts, when footballers are injured and laying on their backs

good face with well set out bone structure but not typically attractive.
olive or deeper tone skin
light toned eyes - love light blue and light brown-green

knowledgeable and well informed - not vacuous and narrow minded.
capable and confident.

NoShitHemlock
Could of written that myself word for word 😂.
Having said that, extreme intelligence is a super turn on for me. I remember listening to a rather tubby-not-much-to-look-at type of guy a few years ago whilst he told me about his work (very scientific) and I just thought, “yup, I wanna sleep with you” lol

@MrsCplus is that the look that either makes you blush intensely/ faint/ or makes the world stop?

Idris Elba. That’s all

Forearms definitely. Arms in general, muscular but not gym muscular, kitchen fitter muscular.

A shapely calf 😂

Toned abs

Forearms - interesting to see this seems to be a common opinion.

Also when he spontaneously does housework. Nothing makes us more likely to have sex than when he does some housework without having to be asked.

An Irish accent

Intelligence and independence

Strong woody smell. If he wasn’t so wonderful, I could replace DH with a decent candle.

The deadpan humour in this line has had me grinning each time I think of it.

Lovely hands! Expressive eyes. Competence! But done quietly and without fuss. Makes me go all unnecessary.....