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Christmas plans. What now!

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Summer2021please · 19/12/2020 20:00

So before Boris’ announcement we had planned to see my family and in laws before Christmas. My family say on Wednesday 23rd and the in laws Thursday 24th and stay home Christmas Day and beyond - was quite looking forward to a Christmas Day at home. We usually spend the day driving around visiting. Both our families are nearby but still take a chunk of the day - all tier 1!

But now we can only see them on Christmas Day. Sounds stupid as some have much more extreme restrictions but I was looking forward to a Christmas Day at home as above and now what?

Would it really matter if we seen them the 24th instead and stayed in the 25th. What’s one day going to make a difference. Still seeing them for one day only? I’ve followed the guidelines pretty religiously but would it really make a difference if
It changes by one day so for one year I can wake up Christmas Day and not have to rush out the door. Sounds trivial I know.

We don’t go out socialising at all. It baffles me that being in tier 1 I could meet 5 friends in the pub tonight or have friends around but not see one family?

Also, I guess as we can see 6 people we can still see some family leading up to Christmas. For instance 4 of us and our in laws? And 4 of us and my parents. But not seeing our siblings (who live at home)!

Baffling! I can totally sympathise with those who have far worse scenarios this Christmas.

Our social contacts have literally been zero apart from work which is pretty safe! It all seems so poop.

OP posts:
Furries · 20/12/2020 07:14

@Summer2021please

So before Boris’ announcement we had planned to see my family and in laws before Christmas. My family say on Wednesday 23rd and the in laws Thursday 24th and stay home Christmas Day and beyond - was quite looking forward to a Christmas Day at home. We usually spend the day driving around visiting. Both our families are nearby but still take a chunk of the day - all tier 1!

But now we can only see them on Christmas Day. Sounds stupid as some have much more extreme restrictions but I was looking forward to a Christmas Day at home as above and now what?

Would it really matter if we seen them the 24th instead and stayed in the 25th. What’s one day going to make a difference. Still seeing them for one day only? I’ve followed the guidelines pretty religiously but would it really make a difference if
It changes by one day so for one year I can wake up Christmas Day and not have to rush out the door. Sounds trivial I know.

We don’t go out socialising at all. It baffles me that being in tier 1 I could meet 5 friends in the pub tonight or have friends around but not see one family?

Also, I guess as we can see 6 people we can still see some family leading up to Christmas. For instance 4 of us and our in laws? And 4 of us and my parents. But not seeing our siblings (who live at home)!

Baffling! I can totally sympathise with those who have far worse scenarios this Christmas.

Our social contacts have literally been zero apart from work which is pretty safe! It all seems so poop.

If one day doesn’t make a difference, then just switch your thinking around. See your relatives on the “allowed” day and do your “at home xmas day” on 24th or 26th. After all, what difference does one day make.
Doidontimmm · 20/12/2020 07:57

Why can’t they come to you?

southeastdweller · 20/12/2020 08:59

Absolutely see them on the 24th. The rules are a farce, think of your family.

PugInTheHouse · 20/12/2020 09:18

You should see one of the households on Xmas day as per the rules which allows more than 6 people indoors for that day and then follow the correct rules for your tier the rest of the time. Do the right thing, if you can't see them you can't see them. It's one day/one year.

Your tiers rules are fairly relaxed so you are not getting a shit deal.

Alternatively do what the higher tier people are doing and have Xmas day to yourself as you want to anyway and have a proper get-together in the new year when rules allowed.

I just don't get all these people deciding to make up their own rules to suit.

I truly believe everyone should be in the same tier as it may stop a few more people doing as they please. Its one big shit show!

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