He's just 16 and in with a rough crowd. Started drinking and smoking. Before his birthday he asked for money. I told him if I found out he brought fags with the money I or anyone had given him I would be fuming and I'd take it off him. 2 weeks later he tried lighting up in his bedroom which I obviously found out due to the smell. He obviously panicked and tried putting it out. I eventually sniffed out a pack of 20 in room and conviscated it from him and gave him a telling off as he was warned and then the fact he tried to smoke in the house made it worse! However now his money has run dry but he's still coming home stinking of smoke but saying a friend gave it to him. He visits his granddad now and then and is very close but he often gives him money. Today I have asked my dad not to give it to him for this reason as want to stop the opportunity or at least limit them and I sometimes wonder if he sees him for this reason 😔. My Son has basically said we aren't giving him money for his tea or feeding him when he comes home (he comes home 9/10pm when out with his friendssome nights so I'm hardly going to cook a tea then) !! He can have tea or lunch before he goes out but this is obviously not good enough. Last night he came in at 9ish and so I said he could have beans on toast but again he wants to fry or cook something and it all rusbish food and I don't want him using all my food and making a mess so late in the evening. Anyway my son now knows I've told my dad not to give him money, my dad's upset and now my son isbecause he says he wouldn't use the money for fags but obviously he's lied in the past so I wanted to make sure. It's all kicked off and I'm feeling like shit. It's not just the smoking I'm worried about he's young and vulnerable, and if he has money he's a sitting target.