I suspect I am being oversensitive... 🙄 It's my birthday today, and not a single person I work with said anything at all. The women on my team are all very friendly with eachother inside and outside of work, and for some reason I have never really felt 'in' with them. On birthdays, maternity leave, new job etc we always put £5 in each to get presents and a card, which of course I have always put money in. One of the other women went on maternity leave just after we went into lockdown. We had a zoom babyshower for her, and our manager took her a bundle of presents which we all put in money towards. A few months later, I went on maternity leave and.... Nothing. I wouldn't have expected anything if I hadn't put in £5 every time it was an event/celebration for someone else. I didn't say anything of course, just felt a bit put out. We are in a group WhatsApp, and they always ask the other woman how she is getting on during her maternity leave, and it would be so lovely for her to join team meeting and so on. But since I have been on maternity leave not a single one of them have spoken to me. And today, the straw on the camel's back I suppose, not a single one said happy birthday 🙄 I feel upset to be honest, but I also feel petty for being upset about such a small thing. I get that I'm probably not their cup of tea, and they are colleagues rather than friends, but AIBU to expect just a polite happy birthday anyway?