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To ask for your unpopular Christmas opinions?

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GlummyMcGlummerson · 10/12/2020 00:27

Mine is that a traditional Christmas dinner is horrible
Turkey - bleurgh, so dry
Sprouts - farts posing as leaves
Parsnips - how can anyone put them in their mouth?!
Stuffing - like eating sand
Christmas pudding - sour booze disguised as cake
Christmas cake - way too dry and that much fruit does not belong in a sponge

I'd honestly be happy with a plate of pigs in blankets, a jar of cranberry sauce and a spoon to eat the sauce straight from the jar.

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SunsetBeetch · 13/12/2020 12:56

Actually, Mariah Carey's is one of the few Christmas songs I can tolerate.

willsantausesantatize · 13/12/2020 14:40

'All I want for Christmas is you' is a classic tune. I'm not a fan of Ms Carey and I have never bought any of her albums or songs but this one song is all my all time favorite Christmas one and much better than the older 70s numbers they play on the radio!
The last ' you' bit is beautifully sung ( not by me though!) and technically difficult. She could belt out a tune back then.

ColdTattyWaitingForSummer · 13/12/2020 14:42

That I love buying presents for my dc.. even tech and branded hoodies.
That I think middle class / wealthy parents who deliberately spend little on their dc are stingy (either that or have extended families who spend a fortune to make up the difference and are just being disingenuous). Not applying this to those who are actually skint! I’ve had those years myself, and Christmas isn’t worth getting into debt for.
That one of the best things about being divorced is never again spending Christmas at the in laws.
That I like receiving fluffy socks / scented candles / shower gel as gifts. (Does mean I’m easy to buy for though!)

KisstheTeapot14 · 13/12/2020 14:42

Horrible Christmas cards are swiftly tucked into the recycling bag.

However, I do keep the pictures from extra lovely ones and stick them up on our doors year after year!

One thing I DO like this year is effort people are going to with windows and Community advent calendar (each person sets up a display on a certain day). That's very cheerful.

Generally feel like hibernating today, it's very grey and low light.

DH and DS baking a cake, so house is full of baking vanilla smell.

willsantausesantatize · 13/12/2020 14:49

I bought the TV guide for Christmas and New Years and I May as well saved last years one as it's all very similar ! 😀
I guess they will say it's covid that's stopped a lot of filming any specials this year etc.

IrmaFayLear · 13/12/2020 14:52

My unpopular opinion is that complaining about Christmas is soooo 2019.

It’s not cool and “I’m a cynic, me” to trash every tradition and think you are on some sort of higher plane. No, you are just a misery.

I love most Christmas songs. Even ones I disliked as a teen I have come round to. Christmas dinner is ace. Christmas cards are festive and appreciated by many older folk. Agree with @ColdTattyWaitingForSummer that competitive stinginess when not necessary is tiresome and soon overcome when you have teens, who generally do not see the merit of only receiving a satsuma, a walnut and a charity-shop jigsaw with three pieces missing.

AliceMadHatter · 13/12/2020 14:56

@willsantausesantatize

'All I want for Christmas is you' is a classic tune. I'm not a fan of Ms Carey and I have never bought any of her albums or songs but this one song is all my all time favorite Christmas one and much better than the older 70s numbers they play on the radio! The last ' you' bit is beautifully sung ( not by me though!) and technically difficult. She could belt out a tune back then.
I don't deny she can sing but it is my unpopular Christmas opinion. I really don't like it.

I prefer Rod Stewarts Christmas Album Xmas Grin

KisstheTeapot14 · 13/12/2020 14:57

@toffeenotcoffee

Woodmansterne or Sellmer Verlag make gorgeous traditional advent calendars. I love an advent calendar and have about 7 of them in the Christmas Box.

DH thinks I'm bonkers.

I'm not a fan of the choc/item ones - just lovely pictures.

Ours is a A3 size one with a snowy tree full of birds this year.
They were from the local arty card shop (independent).

If you Google image search Wildlife friends Traditional Caltime you'll see some beautiful ones. I almost bought the one with the hare in a snowy landscape. Maybe next year....

Bargebill19 · 13/12/2020 15:30

My latest bugbear - I make it very clear we do not do Christmas in any shape or form. No cards, presents or decorations. Yet people have still insisted in sending me Xmas decorations for our home - why?
We don’t do Christmas and I don’t have any space for dust collecting crap nor wish to endanger my pets with it. Just goes straight in the bin.

FortunesFave · 13/12/2020 15:32

Bargebill do you have children?

Bargebill19 · 13/12/2020 15:33

No. No children.

CoronaIsWatching · 13/12/2020 15:41

@Bargebill19

My latest bugbear - I make it very clear we do not do Christmas in any shape or form. No cards, presents or decorations. Yet people have still insisted in sending me Xmas decorations for our home - why? We don’t do Christmas and I don’t have any space for dust collecting crap nor wish to endanger my pets with it. Just goes straight in the bin.
Why are you posting in a Christmas thread then
Bargebill19 · 13/12/2020 15:44

It’s UNPOPULAR opinions. ???? Clue in the title???

Hellotheresweet · 13/12/2020 15:58

@Bargebill19

My latest bugbear - I make it very clear we do not do Christmas in any shape or form. No cards, presents or decorations. Yet people have still insisted in sending me Xmas decorations for our home - why? We don’t do Christmas and I don’t have any space for dust collecting crap nor wish to endanger my pets with it. Just goes straight in the bin.
They insist because no doubt they feel sorry for your children

You have made a decision on entirely your preference.

Parenting is surely about sometimes putting aside own preferences for your children

SmileyClare · 13/12/2020 16:00

Why are posters on at BargeBear? She said no children and this is unpopular opinions, you know- opinions most people don't agree with Grin

Bargebill19 · 13/12/2020 16:05

@Hellotheresweet

I’ve said I don’t have children. I am not a parent. We do not have any children. We will not be having any children, step children or anyone else’s children either visiting or permanently.

We do have pets- they are not children.

You are right - we have made a choice based on our preferences - choices other keep ignoring and wasting their time and money on insisting we change our preferences and choices.

Bargebill19 · 13/12/2020 16:05

@SmileyClare

Thank you 😊

willsantausesantatize · 13/12/2020 16:09

I have lots of unpopular Christmas opinions which are shouted down as being a ' humbug' !

Hellotheresweet · 13/12/2020 16:10

[quote Bargebill19]@Hellotheresweet

I’ve said I don’t have children. I am not a parent. We do not have any children. We will not be having any children, step children or anyone else’s children either visiting or permanently.

We do have pets- they are not children.

You are right - we have made a choice based on our preferences - choices other keep ignoring and wasting their time and money on insisting we change our preferences and choices.[/quote]
I’m so sorry - my mistake
I misread

WeAreTheWeirdosMister · 13/12/2020 16:18

@DdraigGoch

What sort of weirdo would have Yorkshires with anything other than beef?

This type of weirdo - I make them to stretch chicken or sausage dinners if we are extra hungry/have unexpected guests. Cant afford beef often.

IrmaFayLear · 13/12/2020 16:23

Methinks you protest too much, bargebill. Why are you posting on a Christmas thread if the whole thing is anathema to you?

Btw my dog loved Christmas. Snoozing by the fire and the tree, unwrapping presents, a spot of turkey dinner, everyone at home...

Bargebill19 · 13/12/2020 16:30

@IrmaFayLear

Again - it is a thread about UNPOPULAR opinions.

You can thank a lifetime of two us having had retail careers for wanting to avoid anything to do with it.

draughtycatflap · 13/12/2020 17:32

Outdoor Christmas lights should be wired up to the doorbell to give the carol singers (local yobs) a 240 volt surprise.😬

willsantausesantatize · 13/12/2020 17:36

I'd rather have Beef and Yorkshire puds than Turkey on Christmas Day but it's ' tradition' isn't it? ..
I'd also like to eat dinner Christmas Eve and have the actual day having left overs etc but family wouldn't like that either!
I have to comprise a lot at home. Lol
Blooming Christmas!

Manolinette · 13/12/2020 17:50

Mary was a virgin.

Sorry, but just No. Joseph was a good looking man. Something else must have happened.

He was a humble man, with a pure and strong body from all that carpentry. Fit from hacking and hueing timber with his Adz, a gentle sweat glistening as he worked, Mary blushingly admired him that afternoon, 24 March 0001. That rhythmic working with his tool to create a thing of beauty between them. Starting gently, running his strong, yet safe hands over the edges, feeling the contours, just feeling how this wood, once living but now in slumber, could be brought back to life again, in his manner.

He worked his magic on his wood as Mary watched.

Mary drew him some water from the well, gently fragranced with herbs from the valleys and sweetened with a little butter made from the milk of their goat. She knew this would give him strength for the task ahead.

And soon she started to attract his attention.

As he gently gulped the water from the urn under the strong heat of the midday sun, she noticed the rippling of the taught muscles of his stomach, the carpenter's belt hanging down with the weight of his tool, in a V-shape in-front of him, revealing a little more than you would expect.

Even though it was way less than you want to imagine now.

As he looked at her, she caught sight of a bead of sweat roll down urgently into his weighty loin cloth, tracking a trace of his natural body hair. Like sap running to the roots only to rise again.

Their eyes were locked together in that way that only lovers can hold that look, knowing the inevitable is going to happen and only she has the power to invite him in. That deeply intimate thing where she opens up to receive his gift and he is powerless.

And she received his gift, then and there. On the floor of his workshop-cum-stable.

"What is it she asked?" perusing this curious three dimensional block in front of her.

"It is a meecrow-wah-vay " Joseph replied, though adding "I have yet to invent a plug".

After a minute or two he added wistfully "And elect-riz-itty though it is made from wood so won't power up anyway." Mary winked at the camera for she knew wood had its own special property.

"Joseph, I love it" Mary gasped. "You can 'Adz' some legs and I can use it as a butcher's block for my recipes in the meantime".

Delighted by her enthusiasm Joseph closed his workshop for the day and, after washing his hands in a deep bowl of water scented with myrrh and stuff, he ventured to sit by the hearth as Mary entertained their shepherd friends with her mysterious culinary skills. Chopping away at her new butcher's block, they were entranced as she "got a couple of fleshy pomegranates out", then worked her magic "with a knob of butter" before finally getting some cream into her "figgy pudding" after she had "rolled a sausage between her fingers".

Joseph slept well that night. Mary begat herself a book deal and forever more her royalties did floweth.

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