Family court AGAIN !!!

[dublingirl66]

This Man is going to drive me to despair

The lies he has sent in to the family court I can't believe it

Saw the paperwork today and he is saying I have made up information about one of the assaults - he says I told the police something different

Please someone tell me they can see through this ?!!

I told the police about many incidents not all he is now complaining I brought up an incident that I had not told police (there were around 200 incidents so he is being a right bad----) here 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

My friend has something similar and it almost broke her. Her partner was professionally very well qualified and respected and she really worried that this would give him credibility with his peers in court. It didn’t. She was entirely vindicated and left with more confidence (and money) than she could have ever hoped to have had. I just share to show how often they meet these men, from all walks of life.
Take courage and keep going because he will be seen for what he is.

Thank you
This abuser very well educated
Articulate
Position of power

I'm. Not scared of him

Just drained by it all though 😢😢😢😢

@itsgettingweird

Abusers do this.

They don't answer a simple yes and no to a simple statement. Or reply with a factual 1 sentence answer.

They send reams of jargon and words thinking it makes them sound clever and will lead to reader to question everything.

It doesn't. A judge will see through manic defence of mud slinging vs a calm factual statement backed up with evidence (eg police reports)

Just don't get dragged in or respond. Often it's designed to get you wound up and responsive and defensive so they can say something like "see - it's not me blah blah"

Even if the judge throws out that one incident because he queries or denies it it won't matter. There's all the evidence and documented incidents.

This is so so true for me also

Foolish man

I don't consent to this madman sending pages and pages of photos of me into the court wtf ??!!!

She was too but she isn’t now. You won’t be either. But it’s hard. Let anyone help you and be there who can. Be there for yourself too - the extra bath, the face mask, the run or yoga session - whatever helps x

Yes absolutely

Trying to be kinder to myself

I have all the emails
The reports
Psychotherapy notes
Many many more to prove what I am saying

Thanks all xx