I've been up with DS since 5.30am, about 8.30
I filled the sink with hot water to wash up the various plates and cups from last night, DS was screaming around my legs to be picked up (clingy and teething) so to prevent the crying waking DH or the others, I picked up him and didn't manage to wash up.
DH rolled out of bed at 9, made some breakfast, took the empty bowl to the sink when he was finished and washed his bowl up in the sink, ignoring everything else.
I couldn't ever imagine washing my own item up and ignoring all the other washing up that was created not by me but all members of the family.
There wasn't loads, two small plates two glasses, two mugs and a couple of tea spoons.
AIBU to feel a bit wtf?!