Our cat has gone missing (it's been over a week now).
Even worse is the children are due here at weekend and they absolutely adore him and will be gutted. There will be lots of tears I know.
My husband doesn't want to tell them and instead thinks we should lie and say we've rehomed him somewhere like a farm with fields etc...
I think we should tell them the truth.
Firstly because they'll question why we've given their cat away and we'll be the terrible ones. And secondly, because I think they are old enough to know that sometimes these things happen and it's rubbish and sad but we shouldn't hide it from them either. They are 9&11.
And thirdly of course, he still might come back!!
YABU - lie to save them the upset of thinking he's ran away/something bad might have happened.
YANBU - tell them the truth, they are old enough to know. Which is that he is missing and we are trying to find him but that might not be possible.
AIBU?
To think we should tell the truth?
LieOrNoLie · 26/11/2020 10:56
Am I being unreasonable?
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