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Are maidens or horses unreasonable words?

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Northernlassie27 · 22/11/2020 21:02

My son has moved to uni from the NW to the NE. He told his housemates he's after a maiden as he doesn't have one. They were perplexed then once he had explained told him he should be looking for a horse instead.
Is it unreasonable to use such words nowadays or is it now outdated?

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dementedpixie · 22/11/2020 21:04

Clothes airer type thing?
Depends where you live/what your parents called them.

Lockheart · 22/11/2020 21:04

You know neither are unreasonable words. Just regional differences.

HipHopBanzai · 22/11/2020 21:05

Your DS is not being unreasonable. It's still a maiden in my house (NW).

dementedpixie · 22/11/2020 21:05

I'm in Scotland and would say clothes horse
If searching to buy one you'd use clothes airer

purpleme12 · 22/11/2020 21:06

Why didn't you put clothes in front of the words?
I only knew what you were talking about because of the reply after

Oysterbabe · 22/11/2020 21:06

I've never heard it called a maiden.

Tenyearsgone · 22/11/2020 21:06

Neither are unreasonable words. I call it a clothes airer if that complicates things a bit more.

cushioncovers · 22/11/2020 21:09

It's clothes horse in our house

cushioncovers · 22/11/2020 21:09

Meant to say I've never heard it called a clothes maiden before

jambeforeclottedcream · 22/11/2020 21:10

I've heard Maiden before never horse. I'm in Cornwall

Harmarsuperstar · 22/11/2020 21:10

I call it a maiden (NW)

LadyTiredWinterBottom2 · 22/11/2020 21:10

I thought he meant gf. When they said horse l thought crikey just someone to ride, bit cold hearted

jambeforeclottedcream · 22/11/2020 21:11

Oh in terms of a clothes horse yeah but I'd always but clothes in front to validate it

womanthatfelltoearth · 22/11/2020 21:11

I use Maiden (but am from NW)

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 22/11/2020 21:11

Maiden. NW

Sparklingbrook · 22/11/2020 21:13

Airer here . If I said maiden or horse nobody I know would have a clue.

LongDistanceClaret · 22/11/2020 21:13

I call it an airer. Never heard of a maiden.

MaskingForIt · 22/11/2020 21:15

@LadyTiredWinterBottom2

I thought he meant gf. When they said horse l thought crikey just someone to ride, bit cold hearted
That’s what I thought too! But then unless the OP’s son has come from the 18th Century, it didn’t really make sense.
ComtesseDeSpair · 22/11/2020 21:15

I know what both mean and I live in the south east and was brought up in the south west. We call ours a laundry rack.

user1487194234 · 22/11/2020 21:15

Winter dyke Smile

ErrolTheDragon · 22/11/2020 21:16

Probably a good thing a Scot didn't declare a need for a winter dyke...

My late DM was from the NW and used the term 'airer'. I think she'd have found 'maiden' a bit dated and sexist tbh.Grin

ErrolTheDragon · 22/11/2020 21:16

XpostGrin

BecomeStronger · 22/11/2020 21:16

People here would think he was after a "fair maiden" and set him straight but I really don't think anyone's told him he can't use his regional expression, have they?

jerrywesterby · 22/11/2020 21:17

I'm NW but live in Yorkshire, they wouldn't know what a maiden was round here... I have to say clothes dryer Hmm

Twospaniels · 22/11/2020 21:17

I thought he wanted a girlfriend and then his friends were talking about racehorses - I think young female racehorses are maidens ?

A clothes horse is just an airer where I’m from in Bedfordshire

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