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Are maidens or horses unreasonable words?

183 replies

Northernlassie27 · 22/11/2020 21:02

My son has moved to uni from the NW to the NE. He told his housemates he's after a maiden as he doesn't have one. They were perplexed then once he had explained told him he should be looking for a horse instead.
Is it unreasonable to use such words nowadays or is it now outdated?

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JM10 · 22/11/2020 22:21

I also thought it was a weird way if saying he wanted a girlfriend.

I had forgotten, but it was a clothes horse when I was a child. Now just airer or clothes dryer. South West.

40weekswithno2 · 22/11/2020 22:22

No one else call it a clothes dolly then?

Shastabeast · 22/11/2020 22:24

I have NW heritage and for some reason think of the ceiling type versions. My Grandparents had one. No doubt worth a fair bit now.

Megan2018 · 22/11/2020 22:25

It’s an airer everywhere I’ve lived! (South East, South East and East Mids).
I’ve heard of Clothes Horse too but Maiden is just weird-I mean I know what it is because I’ve seen it used, but I don’t get it

TeacupDrama · 22/11/2020 22:29

I think a maiden is the sort that pulls up to the ceiling while a horse folds out and stands on the floor

lazylinguist · 22/11/2020 22:35

Well of course it's not unreasonable to use it. There are regional words. They are all part of the richness of the language. Use them or don't use them!

EmmaGrundyForPM · 22/11/2020 22:37

I'm.from East Anglia and it's a clothes horse here, although I tend to call it an fairer.

Son's girlfriend calls it a maiden, and doesn't preface it with "clothes".

My friend has one that comes down from the ceiling and calls it a "Sheila". No idea if she made that up though!

RoseMartha · 22/11/2020 22:40

My mum used to say clothes horse. And i have heard them called maidens also.
I just say airer

dementedpixie · 22/11/2020 22:41

@EmmaGrundyForPM

I'm.from East Anglia and it's a clothes horse here, although I tend to call it an fairer.

Son's girlfriend calls it a maiden, and doesn't preface it with "clothes".

My friend has one that comes down from the ceiling and calls it a "Sheila". No idea if she made that up though!

I think a Shiela maid is a brand of pulley airer
supersplodge · 22/11/2020 22:42

A maiden hangs from the ceiling Wink and a horse is a floor standing airer.

DS needs to get his technical terms right or he may be arrested....Grin!

nokidshere · 22/11/2020 22:43

We had a maiden, and a clothes horse, and a pulley. Now I have none of those.

I'm a northerner living in the south, they call them clothes Airers here

nokidshere · 22/11/2020 22:45

A maiden hangs from the ceiling and a horse is a floor standing airer.

Noooo the one on the ceiling is called a pulley or a Sheila Grin

TheDowagerDuchess · 22/11/2020 22:45

I’m from the south east, and I’ve always called it a clothes horse. Never heard of calling it a maiden, but wouldn’t think it was offensive particularly.

Iminaglasscaseofemotion · 22/11/2020 22:46

I always called it a clothes horse, then dp moved in and one day asked where the winter dyke was. I was like WTF 🤔! He only grew up in the next town over, but I had never heard that one before.

fizzyp0p · 22/11/2020 22:46

Clothes horse Midlands

AmateurDad · 22/11/2020 22:47

Sorry, what on earth are you talking about?

OwlBeThere · 22/11/2020 22:47

We pronounce it tumble drier in my house HmmGrin

haircutsRus · 22/11/2020 22:49

A maiden is what they call a racehorse yet to win its first race.

UndertheCedartree · 22/11/2020 22:49

I thought he was looking for a girlfriend!! I call it an airer (SE England)

GreyHare · 22/11/2020 22:49

@thegcatsmother

I thought a maiden was one with pulleys that you pull up to near the ceiling?

Clothes horse sounds like one of the old fashioned wooden contraptions that my Gran had that stood in front of the gas fire to dry/air the clothes.

Clothes airer is what I call them.

Yes to me a Maiden is a rack on pulleys and a Horse is a wooden concertina contraption, or more like a wooden freestanding towel rail type thing that you drape your worn clothes on for the next day, I say airer.
movingonup20 · 22/11/2020 22:51

Clothes horse was a southern expression, I heard maiden got the first time in university by people from Yorkshire, but I think they are sold as airers these days

DramaAlpaca · 22/11/2020 22:53

I'm from somewhere between the NW and the NE and grew up calling it either a clothes maid (not maiden) or a clothes horse.

NeonIcedcoffee · 22/11/2020 22:56

No idea what you're talking about from op. I'm from. NE

Laiste · 22/11/2020 22:57

Londoner -
wooden zig zag expanding thing = clothes horse
plastic openy up thing = airer

never heard of maiden.

Ginandplatonic · 22/11/2020 22:57

The only people being unreasonable here are those saying everyone should just call it an airer. Quirky regional variants give UK English it’s charm and interest. Let’s not homogenise it even faster than is already happening.

It was a clothes horse when I was growing up in Australia.