I cannot for the life of me figure it out. We are adding some extra space in our house. One room will be a room for ds 2. He shares now. Final thing to do in the room is carpet, which will be laid 12th December. I suggested that as I get paid next week I can afford to buy some basic furniture like a new wardrobe etc for ds2.:
I explained I can order and then can be delivered after carpet is laid.
First he said what furniture? I showed him last night what I was looking at and showed him in the laptop. He claimed this didn't happen.
He said it's too soon to think of furniture. I said why? He said room is not finished. I said it will be when the things are dellivered. He said it's too soon to think about furniture? I said why? He said he doesn't want the stuff lying around. I said it won't be as it can be delivered after the carpet has been laid and the room will be ready. He again said he is only painting now and it's too soon for furniture. He said we can get it when the room is fine (context we are in high lockdown restrictions, so cannot collect it). This went in and on. In the end he ignored me. I told him he was being rude by ignoring me. He said that I'm sick of repeating the same thing over and over. I said do you agree the room will be finished by 12th December...he said yes. I then said so the furniture could be delivered on the 13th, 14th etc but we should book it now as things will get busy with Christmas and lockdown etc, so isn't it better to order it now? He ignored me and completely stonewalled me. While I repeated why are you being so rude, and I told him that this was making me angry and upset. He ignored me and I had to leave the room.
Is there anyway I was unreasonable? I genuinely do not understand why he caused an argument over this?
It's not money issue BTW. I can assure you of that. The amount I was spending was not a lot and my own money anyway.