Partner got a new amp for the vinyl player yesterday. We haven't had one for a good 6 months. He played his music from mid afternoon until 1am. When I went to bed (just before midnight) I asked him to turn it down, he didn't. I went down again to give him some headphones, he said they were shit and wouldn't use them. I went down again angry and told him in no uncertain terms to turn it off or it was going through the window. Still didn't! Think it eventually went off just after 1am.
I didn't sleep well and asked him not to do it again, he said he'd do it again tonight as it was his house and he can do what he liked! I like music too and it would be different if we didn't have responsibilities but we have a young DD who still regularly wakes in the night and early and , you've guessed it, I do almost all the night wakings. Not to mention it being unfair on the neighbours who have young children!
I wish there was somewhere I could go tonight where I could be in peace and free from his music and arguments. I know it was a Friday night , AIBU?