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Not allowing a nanny to wear lipstick ...

79 replies

Pandamanium · 08/11/2020 19:21

incase it gets on the babies designer clothes.

Perfectly reasonable? (YANBU)
Totally unreasonable? (YABU)

[Not about me, just something I have just seen!]

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Pandamanium · 08/11/2020 19:41

@namesnamesnamesnames

If I say yes it is an admission that I am watching it, but maybe.

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BananaPop2020 · 08/11/2020 19:43

I hate this attitude towards ‘staff’, and actually, in a domestic setting, I hate that term too.

timeforawine · 08/11/2020 19:43

This from yummy mummies GrinI got hooked on that show, she did have some bonkers requests. She's pregnant with number 2 now.

Mooey89 · 08/11/2020 19:45

Bloody love yummy mummies. That baby shower! 😱😱😱

Buddytheelf85 · 08/11/2020 19:47

Oh I’ve just seen it was a TV show Grin in that case the family in question are almost certainly bonkers.

But to be completely fair I think quite a lot of nurseries don’t allow staff to wear heavy make up or lots of jewellery. For safety reasons obvs, not in case it gets on the children’s clothes.

Whatwouldscullydo · 08/11/2020 19:49

I think its bonkers to buy designer baby clothes anyway. Lipstick would just be something else in The long list of stuff to worry about.

I had 3 rules for my babies. Buy supermarket stuff, second hand/hand me downs, and don't buy white ( unless part of the second hand stuff ) Grin

If they can afford a nanny and designer clothing they can afford to clean the bloody outfit

S111n20 · 08/11/2020 19:49

Oh to have a nanny.. oh to have designer clothes... oh to have a lipstick the kids hadn’t ruined. I live a totally different life 😂😂😂

Pandamanium · 08/11/2020 19:49

I got hooked on that show

Honestly, I have to keep watching just to see if it can become any more ludicrous.

The baby shower, the push presents, the interstate bitch fest...

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ArtichokeAardvark · 08/11/2020 19:50

Not allowing make up (lipstick or otherwise) is totally unreasonable but I HATE people wearing perfume/aftershave around my children. FIL is the worst, he wears a very strong distinctive aftershave and both my children reek of it for the rest of the day after they've given him a hug.

TheyreComingToGetYouBarbara · 08/11/2020 19:52

Designer clothes for a baby? Stupid waste of money.

But honestly, do nannies usually wear much makeup? If I were taking care of a baby, I'd probably want to keep my face as clean as possible to avoid smudged makeup and to prevent him from getting makeup on his hands if/when he reached for my face.

Pixiedust49 · 08/11/2020 19:53

@PurBal

I don't know any nannies that wear a dark lipstick at work...
I don’t know any nannies 🤨
rainkeepsfallingdown · 08/11/2020 19:55

How does lipstick get on baby clothes?

tmh88 · 08/11/2020 20:02

I think I watched this! Was it on Netflix called something mummy’s?! Like a group of 3 best friends and this designer obsessed one was like the newbie to the group?! She was not normal at all by the way if I’m remember correctly!

tmh88 · 08/11/2020 20:03

Just seen the update! Yes she was something else!

Gwenhwyfar · 08/11/2020 20:08

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Our nursery doesn't allow nail varnish, lipstick or jewellery for H&S reasons. Maybe it's clouding my judgement."

Jewellery I can understand, but I don't see the health and safety justification for banning nail varnish and lipstick.

timeforawine · 08/11/2020 20:10

You should see her instagram, everything is still as OTT as it was on the show. The little girl is beautiful

eddiemairswife · 08/11/2020 20:11

If the Cambridges' nanny isn't allowed to wear make-up I assume the Cambridges' mummy doesn't either.

namechange7438 · 08/11/2020 20:16

I've just put this on now to see what you're all on about...... If I'm still watching it at midnight I hold you all responsible 😂

Pandamanium · 08/11/2020 20:17

@namechange7438 I am so sorry. warning there are two series and I have binged on series one whilst trying to study all day.

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ChickOnAStick · 08/11/2020 20:18

Ooops DH having a little fumble?

FippertyGibbett · 08/11/2020 20:19

@draughtycatflap

Your husband’s shirt collars more like! 😬
Love it 🤣
nbee84 · 08/11/2020 20:23

But honestly, do nannies usually wear much makeup? If I were taking care of a baby, I'd probably want to keep my face as clean as possible to avoid smudged makeup and to prevent him from getting makeup on his hands if/when he reached for my face

I'm a nanny and I wear make-up. I don't have very good skin and like to wear my bareminerals powder to make my complexion look better - so then need a bit of blusher to stop my face looking flat. My eyes are small and look a lot better with a bit of eyeshadow and mascara. I just wear a bit of lip gloss to finish the look. It's quite an 'unmade up' look, not a full on night out look, but helps me to feel a bit better about myself as I see the parents, other nannies, parents and teachers on the school run, shop assistants, library staff and toddler group leaders - so quite a lot of people.

ellenpartridge · 08/11/2020 20:27

This was totally fake and made up for the show if you're talking about Maria from Yummy Mummies.

Pandamanium · 08/11/2020 20:28

This was totally fake and made up for the show

Really? Was everything else as well? Were all the designer clothes fake too?

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namechange7438 · 08/11/2020 20:32

My god.... Maria is awful. Her stuff must be scripted?! Surely.

Sadly I'm still watching. Step forward my new addiction lmfao.

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