I opened my laptop to start wfh and there was a bdsm website up with hundreds of explicit messages to different women going back months. Husband said ‘it’s just a fantasy thing’ There aren’t any photos exchanged or private details.
AIBU to think it’s cheating?
I literally don’t know what to do. I’ve always been the one with a slightly higher sex drive and I’ve never turned him down.
I’ve been working myself half to death to pay for our beautiful house and all our things whilst he has an easy life and I feel a lot of resentment that this is what he’s been doing while I’ve been working and he’s sitting at home.
I also feel that I don’t know how I can trust him now. I could never have done something like this to him.