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To feel like the worst parent...

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ImAwfulWithUsernames · 22/10/2020 23:50

I have a toddler (almost 2) and am newly pregnant to our second. I try to take toddler out to play, he doesn't understand that after 2 hours we have to go, so my hair gets ripped out and face clawed at. I cry, he cries, I have to pick him up when I shouldn't be lifting heavy things right now. I need to pop to the shops to get a few bits for dinner, tantrum ensues and wish I just asked his dad to pick it up on the way home from work.
So we stay home.. we're both bored beyond belief. What do I do with a toddler who won't draw, paint or play nicely ? The only games he understands are like hide and seek etc. I can't do this 9 hours a day.
How do I keep him entertained? Without stressing me and the baby out?
I worry he will grow up thinking "all mum did was sit on the sofa and watch me run around"... but I'm at a loss for what to do with him.

Any words of wisdom or advice would be greatly appreciated. Feeling very deflated right now! Thank you Bear

OP posts:
AibuTellMe · 24/10/2020 00:08

Stick the tv on op don't feel bad. Cbeebies for him. Chocolate for you.

birdling · 24/10/2020 08:24

When you are leaving the park, get them to wave and say 'bye bye park, see you soon'.
I've no idea why, but it worked with all of my three Confused

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