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to wish people would stop saying 'The North'

188 replies

Lludmilla · 15/10/2020 15:26

...like it's all one great big homogenous lump of land.

This irritates me at the best of times, but the recent Covid scapegoating has made it worse. Newsflash: Covid rates actually VARY in what people are referring to as 'The North'. Just like poverty rates, crime rates, unemployment rates, everything really. Who'd have thought it?

I've spent my life in various places, mainly around the north-west and the east Midlands, and I don't have all the southern counties lumped together in my mind as one big mass called 'The South'.

Am I alone in feeling that some (note I said SOME) of those who use the term 'The North' are exhibiting unconscious ignorance/bias?

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LavaCake · 15/10/2020 15:56

I’m always amazed by how far south ‘the north’ actually begins! I live in Edinburgh and from here it seems like most of England is ‘THE NORTH’. So yanbu in my opinion.

Gancanny · 15/10/2020 16:03

Last week I saw a poster on here blaming the new restrictions on "Northerners who can't follow the rules" so you're not wrong about the covid scapegoating going on.

I also agree that the "The North" is not one homogeneous mass and for many of us what is considered by others to be "The North" is in fact South. For my particular slice of "The North", I consider "The North" to be Scotland because that's the only thing North of me.

CrappleUmble · 15/10/2020 16:14

I think it depends on context. On the subject of covid and restrictions it's completely unhelpful.

PickAChew · 15/10/2020 16:15

But. But... The A1 goes to The North.

TheLovleyChebbyMcGee · 15/10/2020 16:17

I’m always amazed by how far south ‘the north’ actually begins!

This!

saraclara · 15/10/2020 16:19

To be fair (and I'm a northerner transplanted to the south east) northerners refer to 'the south' and 'southerners' just as much, in my experience.

Squirrelblanket · 15/10/2020 16:21

I agree! There's a real North/South thing going on in the press at the moment which is really unhelpful and ridiculous. Different areas of the country will have prevalence of the virus at different times.

MillieEpple · 15/10/2020 16:23

What do you do for the south then? I always think south west, south east and London but sometimes the south east includes London. They are still massive areas but a bit more defined. I am very south. London is well over an hour north of here.

seaclaidte · 15/10/2020 16:23

The north

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Hellothere19999 · 15/10/2020 16:23

I think we refer to “the south”/ “southerners” just as much but it is relative. I remember when visiting London for uni (I’m from Manchester) a girl said she was northern like me.... she was from Peterborough. Lol. I mean it is north of London I guess 🤔

user1497787065 · 15/10/2020 16:26

I agree. I'm in Somerset and get very tired of bing in the 'south'. London to Lands End is almost 300 miles and hugely different but still defined as 'the south'.

MoonDelay · 15/10/2020 16:28

It's a bit 'Game of Thrones' isn't it 😄

Gibbonsgibbonsgibbons · 15/10/2020 16:28

I’m always amazed by how far south ‘the north’ actually begins!
This
Years of having UK team meetings in Birmingham because it’s in the middle of the country ConfusedHmm
(There also used to be a weather forecast broadcast in England that showed the sea north of the border Confused)

romeolovedjulliet · 15/10/2020 16:29

i'm a southerner born and bred, living up north ? that would be london and above for me Smile

ShirleyPhallus · 15/10/2020 16:30

Well. If we got rid of “the north” could we also get rid of the “all of London is a dangerous and expensive piece of shit” lot too?

SleepingStandingUp · 15/10/2020 16:34

Plenty of people also say "The South" and I'd say that varies even more than the North. And everyone forgets there is a huge bit in the middle helpfully labelled The Midlands.
So yes, you're being u and p

Babyboomtastic · 15/10/2020 16:34

But that's literally what the sign says...

to wish people would stop saying 'The North'
NerrSnerr · 15/10/2020 16:35

I'm from the north and now live in the south west and do get frustrated when people talk about any southerners benefiting from politics being London centric, believe me we don't over here!!

I used to live in the midlands and the northerners thought we were in the south and the southerners thought we were in the north!

MissConductUS · 15/10/2020 16:36

Native New Yorkers are famous for this attitude. If you can't get there by tube it's out in the wilderness and beyond civilization.

dorispiffle · 15/10/2020 16:38

North starts at the Watford Gap. Gavel.

to wish people would stop saying 'The North'
butterpuffed · 15/10/2020 16:39

I rarely hear people referring to 'The North' and 'The South' , it's never that polite ! It's usually a mimic of the accents 'Oop North' and 'Darn Sarf'. It's just the way people are.

JunoJigglewick · 15/10/2020 16:41

The North starts once you are beyond Dundee.

The South is anywhere South of the Scottish Borders.

MsMarvellous · 15/10/2020 16:41

Anything south of Yorkshire but north of Watford is "midlands" to me. No capital letter, I know what The Midlands actually is 🤣

DillonPanthersTexas · 15/10/2020 16:42

The North starts from Regents Park

DillonPanthersTexas · 15/10/2020 16:44

The West Country starts from Richmond