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to wish people would stop saying 'The North'

188 replies

Lludmilla · 15/10/2020 15:26

...like it's all one great big homogenous lump of land.

This irritates me at the best of times, but the recent Covid scapegoating has made it worse. Newsflash: Covid rates actually VARY in what people are referring to as 'The North'. Just like poverty rates, crime rates, unemployment rates, everything really. Who'd have thought it?

I've spent my life in various places, mainly around the north-west and the east Midlands, and I don't have all the southern counties lumped together in my mind as one big mass called 'The South'.

Am I alone in feeling that some (note I said SOME) of those who use the term 'The North' are exhibiting unconscious ignorance/bias?

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blueberrypie0112 · 15/10/2020 17:32

They do the same think in the States

The North- The South

twilightermummy · 15/10/2020 17:33

I’m Northern and love the term ‘The North’.

quest1on · 15/10/2020 17:35

“I’ve spent my life in various places, mainly around the north-west”

Well I, for one, find this an outrage. AIBU? No. The sheer audacity of the terminology. It reeks of unconscious bias towards the North-East. Shocking business - this lumping together of Liverpool with Preston and the good folk of Lake Windermere. Not to mention Ellesmere Port - will nobody think of them?

cakewench · 15/10/2020 17:38

I'm not originally from the UK; I moved here 15 years ago and have spent most of my adult life here in the midlands.

One of the first things I commented about to my husband was the signs on the M1 to "The North". It's so vague. They could just say M1 North, or Northbound, or whatever, but saying "The North" implies that there is a destination called The North and you just need to read this thread to see what people think about that Grin

Anyway OP I'm afraid you're shouting at clouds if you think it'll change, but I do agree that when some people say The North, they're saying it with an implied bias. FWIW whenever I hear it I tend to repeat it as ominously as possible (THE NORTH Grin) and ask for clarification as to what they mean, mostly because I really don't always know wtf they mean, and also because I like to highlight how vague it all is. Thankfully I don't hear it often because most of our friends are from Yorkshire and they tend to be more specific in their generalisations (oh yes that's Proper North, etc!)

nosswith · 15/10/2020 17:42

YANBU. As someone who lives in London.

drspouse · 15/10/2020 17:45

Lots of planets have a North.

Rowgtfc72 · 15/10/2020 17:46

I'm east coast. Anything above me is Up North. Anything below me is Down South. The Midlands are to my left!

quest1on · 15/10/2020 17:48

“One of the first things I commented about to my husband was the signs on the M1 to "The North"”

If you’re driving the other way, another sign says, “The South. “ It’s quite helpful really.

BakedTattie · 15/10/2020 17:49

I’m Edinburgh and the north to me is Inverness Grin

Skysblue · 15/10/2020 17:49

I find it a bit odd (especially how friends in the Midlands refer to themselves as Northeners, surely Mid means middle?)

However ‘The North’ is on the London roadsigns toward the M1 so I think you’re being unreasonable to see it as a negative term. It basically means North in relation to the capital.

Snooper22 · 15/10/2020 17:55

I'm not a northerner I'm from the Midlands! 'The Shire' to be precise 😂...these are the arguments I have with my southern partner (Kent).

MuddlingMackem · 15/10/2020 17:57

@FlyingSquid Thu 15-Oct-20 17:24:09
I'm always surprised at how far north Sheffield is. To my (Lancs/Cumbria) mindset it's somewhere about level with Birmingham, not a hop skip and peatbog away from Manchester.

But Manchester is south, it's only just not in the Midlands. Wink

jagoda · 15/10/2020 18:00

Another Southerner here who has no concept really.

If pushed I would probably say anything north of Milton Keynes is up north - sorry Grin

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 15/10/2020 18:02

SleepingStandingUp

Not really to which part?!

FirefighterA24 · 15/10/2020 18:07

My sister lives up north and I live in London, we both say up north, down south, unable to see why anyone would be offended? I love where she lives, so does DC !!!!

Disfordarkchocolate · 15/10/2020 18:16

Love the idea that Liverpool is even considered as being in The North. That's a pretty long drive south for me with lots of diverse populations in between.

TheOneWhoWalksInTheSun · 15/10/2020 18:17

Well unless you live at a pole it's all relative!

SleepingStandingUp · 15/10/2020 18:17

@WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll

SleepingStandingUp

Not really to which part?!

The Miidlands being a long way south
SleepingStandingUp · 15/10/2020 18:18

@Disfordarkchocolate

Love the idea that Liverpool is even considered as being in The North. That's a pretty long drive south for me with lots of diverse populations in between.
But are you in England or Scotland?
mugginsalert · 15/10/2020 18:18

Re covid, isn't the issue less about over generalisation of geographies, and more about scapegoating happening at all?

Disfordarkchocolate · 15/10/2020 18:20

England @SleepingStandingUp but if I fancied breakfast in Scotland I wouldn't have to get up early.

MuddlingMackem · 15/10/2020 18:27

@Disfordarkchocolate , are you in Berwick? Grin

SleepingStandingUp · 15/10/2020 18:34

@Disfordarkchocolate

England *@SleepingStandingUp* but if I fancied breakfast in Scotland I wouldn't have to get up early.
I'm assuming East not West then, the country does cut spiritually far up along that coast
Straven123 · 15/10/2020 18:37

There was talk of the Gov moving out of London whilst repairs to building were done- so I thought they could move to the middle of the country so Carlisle, however if you include the Shetland Isles the centre is prob Glasgow!

nancybotwinbloom · 15/10/2020 18:43

It always makes me think of game of thrones when people say the north.