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Started seeing a guy but he’s active on fabswingers

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Appleang · 14/10/2020 21:40

I just started seeing a guy, being seeing each other for 3 months. . I am really into him and he says he feels like wise. One of my best Gay friends Said he spotted him on fabswingers stating he was bisexual and available. I set up a fake account. Was only on 5 mins and he had put a friend request through. I played along and said fancy meeting up he said free tonight. I feel sad on soo many levels. It’s bad enough he’s on this site, let alone wanting to meet up with a stranger during a pandemic he could make my family or I ill or worse. What should I do next how should o handle this? Please I need advice and support.

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Thelnebriati · 14/10/2020 23:49

Well done OP, and welcome to the Crazy Ex Club Grin

Appleang · 14/10/2020 23:51

@Thelnebriati

Well done OP, and welcome to the Crazy Ex Club Grin
Thankyou rather be in this club rather than the under the thumb girlfriend club!
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SarahBellam · 15/10/2020 00:01

Grade A knob. Dodged a bullet there!

RationalOne · 15/10/2020 00:06

He could/has put you all at risk

What a tosser

Buggedandconfused · 15/10/2020 00:09

Those messages sound just like my ex!! Found him on Fab too ... and guess what ... it was MY fault. He used the same wordage... reflect on my behaviour etc etc. Deffo bin, and don’t feed his madness by replying.

Appleang · 15/10/2020 00:12

@Buggedandconfused

Those messages sound just like my ex!! Found him on Fab too ... and guess what ... it was MY fault. He used the same wordage... reflect on my behaviour etc etc. Deffo bin, and don’t feed his madness by replying.
He is well and truly gone!
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Offtothedogs · 15/10/2020 06:35

Oh wow, there are lying cheating knobs and then there are lying cheating knobs who've immersed themselves in a load of self-actualisation bullshit and actually think what they're doing is righteous. What an absolute pathetic shit. So pleased for you that you've escaped early on.

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