Started seeing a guy but he’s active on fabswingers

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I just started seeing a guy, being seeing each other for 3 months. . I am really into him and he says he feels like wise. One of my best Gay friends Said he spotted him on fabswingers stating he was bisexual and available. I set up a fake account. Was only on 5 mins and he had put a friend request through. I played along and said fancy meeting up he said free tonight. I feel sad on soo many levels. It’s bad enough he’s on this site, let alone wanting to meet up with a stranger during a pandemic he could make my family or I ill or worse. What should I do next how should o handle this? Please I need advice and support.

Oops, didn't see the latest update.

At least you didn't waste too much time on him.

@TheyreComingToGetYouBarbara

Oops, didn't see the latest update.

At least you didn't waste too much time on him.

I hope he doesn't do this to any other women. If he's happy swinging he should keep to that rather than starting up any fake relationships. Unless he's up front about it and they want to join in or let him do it with their consent.

How did he claim it was your fault?

Yea ok it’s your fault he is online looking for strangers to shag.
What an arsehole!

At least you found out now and not later.

Have you done anything sexually unprotected (you don’t need to answer) if yes then you need to get checked out as he is obviously having casual sexual encounters with people who he has no idea of their sexual history and you can’t know for definite (and his word isn’t good enough) that he has always been protected.

It's too late now, but what I would have done on the fake account is - set up the meeting, and when he asks for your address, put your real address in. Then the penny drops and he knows it was you and he got caught out!

Put it down to experience. Look forward, not back.

@TrickorTreacle

It's too late now, but what I would have done on the fake account is - set up the meeting, and when he asks for your address, put your real address in. Then the penny drops and he knows it was you and he got caught out!

Ha ha I did think of that for a split second

@LaurieFairyCake

How did he claim it was your fault?

Apparently I'm unstable.

Hahahahahahahhahaha no. What a dick.

You really have dodged a bullet

@AdoptAdaptImprove

Hahahahahahahhahaha no. What a dick.

Totally

@CornishTiger

You really have dodged a bullet

Agree

Wow, he is really projecting, isn't he. If you feel you must reply, keep it very short and terse "Fuck off, you lying, gaslighting creep" oughta do it!

@Joolsin

Wow, he is really projecting, isn't he. If you feel you must reply, keep it very short and terse "Fuck off, you lying, gaslighting creep" oughta do it!

He certainly is. We have blocked each other now. I quoted his userne to him and he blocked me straight away. He knew 100% he was busted

@BigBadVoodooHat

What should I do next how should o handle this? Please I need advice and support.

My advice is to marry him forthwith because he sounds absolutely ace.

I totally understand why you’re at a loss about what to do next, though. It must be really hard to work out what to do for the best when a brand new partner arranges to swinger-cheat on you in the middle of a global pandemic.

Lucky escape, be glad you only wasted 3 months with the dickhead.
At least you got a good 'OLD disaster story' to laugh about with your friends! And hopefully not any STIs.

@goisey

Lucky escape, be glad you only wasted 3 months with the dickhead. At least you got a good 'OLD disaster story' to laugh about with your friends! And hopefully not any STIs.

Too many disaster stories when it come to men. Single life for me!

Booby Shute for him

BigBadVoodooHat
What should I do next how should o handle this? Please I need advice and support.

My advice is to marry him forthwith because he sounds absolutely ace.

I totally understand why you’re at a loss about what to do next, though. It must be really hard to work out what to do for the best when a brand new partner arranges to swinger-cheat on you in the middle of a global pandemic.

Sorry posted too soon. He sounds a nasty piece of work,OP. You have had a lucky escape. Take care

Christ those messages! One hell of a bullet dodged. What a complete prick.

It's shite for you OP when you were putting yourself out there and open to something real, to have to deal with that sort of arsewipe

I had one of these, but it took me 9 months to find out. When I immediately dumped him, he started crying because 'none of my relationships work out'. No fucking shit, sherlock.

Twats.

@Hollyhocksarenotmessy

I had one of these, but it took me 9 months to find out. When I immediately dumped him, he started crying because 'none of my relationships work out'. No fucking shit, sherlock.

Twats.

It's probably more common than we relies. Do men no longer grow up

Ha ha that message!! What a deluded arse hole of a man!

Hahahahahaha that message!!

Bloody women MAKING the poor man go on swingers sites during a pandemic.

Burn the witches!

Dodged a bullet OP - thank god!