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Teenage daughter is being threatened

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Scaredmumhelp · 05/10/2020 21:34

My dd got into an argument yesterday via snapchat as this girl accused her of chatting up her boyfriend. The girl was immediately vile to dd and she was stupid enough to be vile back even though she doesn't even know the lad involved at all.
I told her to stop engaging as you never know who you're dealing with but it's too late. Since found out that this girl and her mate are 1 and 2yrs older than dd and are hard as fuck in dd's words. All her mates know of them and videos have been shown of her fighting. She has beaten up grown men in public places etc etc. She has every bit of info about my dd including name, address, phone number, college timetable, her best friends, where she hangs out etc etc. All this was provided to her by another girl who dd used to be friends with at school but isn't anymore. This girl has told dd she's coming to get her tonight and dd has been avoiding her. Dd is now home thank god but I'm worried sick. It's only a matter of time before she catches up with her. If i inform the police will they do anything? Dd has blocked the girl now so there's no record of what has been said and my concern is they will just think she is almost as bad for arguing back with her in the first place.

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Scaredmumhelp · 07/10/2020 08:12

No idea who the parents are no. They don't live in our immediate area. Just came to the area specifically to look for her on Monday night. Dd went to work last night so didn't hear of anything but I don't think they will leave it. Dd just wants it over with.

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Emeraldshamrock · 07/10/2020 08:26

If they're not from the area at least she can avoid them a bit longer until they spy another target.
Absolute wagons at their age looking to scrap they'll be in prison if they continue with that life.
Best place for them. x

Atalune · 07/10/2020 08:52

I had this and had to run away form some very hRd girls a few times in my youth.

It did all eventually go away after a few months but I was terrified for a while. I just legged it if I saw them.

Emeraldshamrock · 07/10/2020 09:27

I had this and had to run away form some very hRd girls a few times in my youth
I've known a few myself and likewise it blew over before I had a beaten. In some areas it is part of growing up unfortunately.

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