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AIBU to walk away from this house purchase?

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Quandaries · 04/10/2020 12:21

Will try to keep this short.

Viewed a house and loved it 6 weeks ago. Ticked all the right boxes and was very good value for what it was. Offered asking price and it was accepted. Survey done, solicitor engaged etc so at the stage where it’s cost us some money.
Booking deposit has been paid but is refundable (not in Scotland).

We have a large deposit and mortgage is ready to draw down. We’re not in a chain.

Our solicitor was chasing theirs for contracts.

On Thursday I got a call from their agent to say they’ve allowed another viewing from a very insistent couple who are cash buyers and offered £8k more.

Agent now wants us to reoffer and increase on the new buyers’ offer so we’ll be paying £12k above what was agreed. He insists that the house will go for even more if it goes back on the market and says that houses are being snapped up before they go on the market as more people are working from home and this village is very popular for those with just an occasional commute.

I’ve had a look at Right Move and can’t see any evidence of anything other than price drops in the area. I accept that there may be houses selling before hitting the market and I don’t have this data.

My heart loves the house. It’s in a stunning village and really ticks all the boxes in terms of schools etc.

My head is saying we’re actually in a better position than the cash buyer as we’re 100% ready to go and can sign this week whereas they will need to have survey done etc.

Head is also telling me that if the sellers are going to screw us for £8k (for context, that’s a bit over 1% of the purchase price we had agreed), they’ll be a nightmare to deal with and it’s only a matter of time until they come back to us either with a new offer from the other bidders, or pushing to put it back on the market.

I’m also guessing that house purchases slow down a bit in winter, and it’s an area where more Covid lockdown measures are likely so putting it back on the market may mean there aren’t many viewings.

For additional context, we can afford to increase our offer. I’m just loathe to get into a bidding war due to how the vendor has sprung this on us.

But I love the house.

YABU- up my offer
YANBU- walk away

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Elbels · 08/10/2020 14:45

I'm fully invested in this now. Maybe he's planning on making the house looked haunted so the sellers and buyers both get freaked out and he wants you to dress up as ghost?

ShalomToYouJackie · 08/10/2020 14:46

Please make a new thread as this one is nearly full. I want to know what the secret project is!

honeybeetheoneandonly · 08/10/2020 14:49

OP You need a new thread. This thread just isn't big enough for you and the chocolate eating monsters. (I'm not eating chocolate at the moment- but luckily living in my dream house, so all good)

HariboLectar · 08/10/2020 14:51

ooh intriguing (i'm totally overinvested now)

Guiltypleasures001 · 08/10/2020 14:54

I'm sorry to hear about your house buying troubles op..

In other news, did somebody mention strawberry after eights ? Grin

FinallyFluid · 08/10/2020 15:06

I can't stand the suspense.

Lifeisforalimitedperiodonly · 08/10/2020 15:06

OP, I am so stressed over this thread, I have eaten two Fry's Turkish Delights.
This almost exact thing happened to us. The offer was accepted, survey done, buyer then went with another EA in addition, they said it was worth more and he asked us for £15k more.
I told the EA to tell him to insert his offer into an orifice of his choosing. We then went out and bough a new build and WE LOVE IT.
Good luck with whatever you do but do come back and tell us the end of the story!

pencilpot99 · 08/10/2020 15:12

Wow, I'm on tenterhooks now OP!

sueelleker · 08/10/2020 15:20

tell him to insert his offer into an orifice of his choosing Grin

ChillerKillerCroissant · 08/10/2020 15:36

That sounds a bit dodgy to me! I wonder if the EA is plotting revenge against the vendors too Hmm

Marmunia1975 · 08/10/2020 15:40

This is exciting and I'm totally invested in this thread. I hope they get instant karma! FWIW - my DH got karma. He has been very patient and caring toward an employee with severe mental health issues. However, the employee threatened to kill him, drove home, had a crash, got out of the car and the other car reversed into him, leaving him with broken legs and possible amputations.

JacobReesMogadishu · 08/10/2020 15:42

OP start a new thread and link to it here

Chicchicchicchiclana · 08/10/2020 15:59

EA's message is dodgy as anything! He shouldn't be being so mysterious and stringing OP and half of Mumsnet along. There isn't enough chocolate to keep this intrigue going!

Binkybix · 08/10/2020 16:01

I thought I’d get resolution, but I haven’t got anything apart from a craving for Turkish Delight Thins.

bloodywhitecat · 08/10/2020 16:01

You're going to need a second thread OP (alongside a Turkish Delight), I am so glad you didn't get lured into the NB trap but sad that you lost the house of your dreams.

MiddleClassProblem · 08/10/2020 16:01

I think he is looking for a handjob behind a bin...

Hippee · 08/10/2020 16:02

Maybe the EA is on Mumsnet.

ohflipit · 08/10/2020 16:02

Anyone else here sat at their desks constantly refreshing this page rather than working? Blush

holb54 · 08/10/2020 16:03

@MiddleClassProblem

I think he is looking for a handjob behind a bin...
😂😂😂

By far the most entertaining thread I've ever read! So much in from mystery to chocolate 😂

iMatter · 08/10/2020 16:14

@Marmunia1975

This is exciting and I'm totally invested in this thread. I hope they get instant karma! FWIW - my DH got karma. He has been very patient and caring toward an employee with severe mental health issues. However, the employee threatened to kill him, drove home, had a crash, got out of the car and the other car reversed into him, leaving him with broken legs and possible amputations.
Confused
AHobbyaweek · 08/10/2020 16:15

Convincing myself that I do need to get up to wee/stretch my legs/get a drink or anything g to make it seem like a legitimate break from WFH to check this thread...

m00rfarm · 08/10/2020 16:16

I cannot imagine what he wants you to assist him with. My mind is running riot ...

MiddleClassProblem · 08/10/2020 16:19

@Marmunia1975 that’s awful! I’m not sure how it’s karma!

31133004Taff · 08/10/2020 16:20

Anyone else here sat at their desks constantly refreshing this page rather than working? blush

Yes! This!

WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll · 08/10/2020 16:24

Glad your DH is not in danger, Marmunia1975, but I don't really think there are any winners in that situation.