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AIBU to walk away from this house purchase?

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Quandaries · 04/10/2020 12:21

Will try to keep this short.

Viewed a house and loved it 6 weeks ago. Ticked all the right boxes and was very good value for what it was. Offered asking price and it was accepted. Survey done, solicitor engaged etc so at the stage where it’s cost us some money.
Booking deposit has been paid but is refundable (not in Scotland).

We have a large deposit and mortgage is ready to draw down. We’re not in a chain.

Our solicitor was chasing theirs for contracts.

On Thursday I got a call from their agent to say they’ve allowed another viewing from a very insistent couple who are cash buyers and offered £8k more.

Agent now wants us to reoffer and increase on the new buyers’ offer so we’ll be paying £12k above what was agreed. He insists that the house will go for even more if it goes back on the market and says that houses are being snapped up before they go on the market as more people are working from home and this village is very popular for those with just an occasional commute.

I’ve had a look at Right Move and can’t see any evidence of anything other than price drops in the area. I accept that there may be houses selling before hitting the market and I don’t have this data.

My heart loves the house. It’s in a stunning village and really ticks all the boxes in terms of schools etc.

My head is saying we’re actually in a better position than the cash buyer as we’re 100% ready to go and can sign this week whereas they will need to have survey done etc.

Head is also telling me that if the sellers are going to screw us for £8k (for context, that’s a bit over 1% of the purchase price we had agreed), they’ll be a nightmare to deal with and it’s only a matter of time until they come back to us either with a new offer from the other bidders, or pushing to put it back on the market.

I’m also guessing that house purchases slow down a bit in winter, and it’s an area where more Covid lockdown measures are likely so putting it back on the market may mean there aren’t many viewings.

For additional context, we can afford to increase our offer. I’m just loathe to get into a bidding war due to how the vendor has sprung this on us.

But I love the house.

YABU- up my offer
YANBU- walk away

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Chicchicchicchiclana · 08/10/2020 13:53

Yikes! Can't your dh or dp call the EA?

Aweebawbee · 08/10/2020 13:54

Stick with your original £775,000. You already withdrew the £782,750 offer.

Onesipmore · 08/10/2020 13:57

Can you text the agent and ask him to say what he wants via message as you are on a Zoom?

CreakingatTheWhinges · 08/10/2020 13:59

@DrinkFeckArseGirls

Onadifferentuniverse Cake I meant where did you buy it? Or did you just see it online?
"Research" informs me Co-Op, Spar, WH Smith & Amazon supply..... *also over invested....although don't know why as can't help thinking it sounds like it might taste of a seasonal candle 🥺
Beautiful3 · 08/10/2020 14:01

Let us know what the voice message says!

StillSmallVoice · 08/10/2020 14:08

Yes. Dying to know!

YouDidWHATNow · 08/10/2020 14:09

I don't know what I am more on edge about, the EA phone call, or realising @Wotsitsarecheesy is right. I think for 20+ years I have been played by my bounty eating mother...

Noshowlomo · 08/10/2020 14:12

Ooooo I wonder!

ChristMyArse · 08/10/2020 14:18

@Quandaries I've just read the entire thread to get to your last post and since then THERE IS NO UPDATE!!!!!

Please god, go to the loo, listen and report back!!!!!!

Please and thank you.

WidowTwonky · 08/10/2020 14:18

Time for a comfort break OP? (and take your phone!)

Corneliusmurphy · 08/10/2020 14:25

Most pleased with the orange twirl I finally tried yesterday.

Quandaries · 08/10/2020 14:26

@Onesipmore

Can you text the agent and ask him to say what he wants via message as you are on a Zoom?
Had to.

I need a Twix.

AIBU to walk away from this house purchase?
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greyinganddecaying · 08/10/2020 14:28

That sounds quite mysterious!

OnCandyStripeLegs · 08/10/2020 14:29

Related to it but he's still not heard from the sellers? Firstly - have they disappeared up their own arses? And secondly - that's a bit intriguing. Why can't he put it in writing?

ric12 · 08/10/2020 14:29

Reduce your offer by £8k.

sqirrelfriends · 08/10/2020 14:30

What on earth could you assist with? Maybe he's looking for payback and wants your help to think of something good.

ChristMyArse · 08/10/2020 14:31

Intriguing!!

Knittedfairies · 08/10/2020 14:31

The plot thickens...

TinyTear · 08/10/2020 14:32

Do start a new thread soon, as I bet this one will fill up with people asking for an update!

EvilPea · 08/10/2020 14:32

Oooh I’m intrigued.
Keeping with the scheme of cheeky fuckers I did wonder if the NB wanted to buy your survey.

But it’s obviously not that

ThePluckOfTheCoward · 08/10/2020 14:37

How mysterious.

MaggieFS · 08/10/2020 14:38

Oh that's weird.

We've almost filled the thread with chocolate talk!

Daftapath · 08/10/2020 14:39

He clearly wants to buy chocolates for someone and wants some advice!

Op please start a new thread (for choc talk, if nothing else!) if this runs out [please]

StoneofDestiny · 08/10/2020 14:42

Op - don't let the thread die - dead interested in the mysterious message.

Cakeandcustard123 · 08/10/2020 14:44

Can you reply and ask him to briefly say what it is as you're finding it hard to concentrate on your meetings when you are wondering about this (and that half of mumsnet also wants to know....)

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