So this morning I woke up and opened the browser on my phone to find an image of a vibrator/dildo on a well known sex toys website. Now my dh has used my phone before once when his phone broke and he was waiting for his new one to come and another time when it was being repaired. Both those time’s he’d taken my phone when I’ve been asleep looked at porn and forgot to clear the history. I of course asked him about it. The first time he lied but admitted it later and the second time he was honest and said he had looked at it. So my first thought was obviously my dh had taken my phone again especially since he accidentally left his phone in work yesterday and only got it back today. But then I panicked that maybe our 8 year old ds had snuck my phone early this morning to play games and maybe an inappropriate pop up came up. But he only plays roblox and nothing has popped up before. So i gently (not using any inappropriate wording) quizzed my son to see if he had used my phone at all and if anything had popped up. He was honest (can always tell if he lies) and said no and that he’d been on his tablet and played roblox on that and not on my phone.. But to be fair he’d have no reason to lie anyway. So when my dh came home from work i of course asked him about this and he denied it. Due to previous behaviours my gut feeling was that he is lying. We have a great sex life and to be honest I’m not offended by (soft) porn or sex toys. The only thing that bothered me was when he did look at porn he lied about it. I don’t care if he watches it and he knows that. So if he didn’t search this who did? Oh and fwiw I also have two teenagers. But they have their own phones and I very much doubt they’d search this sort of thing on their own phones never mind their mum’s phone. AIBU to want to get to the bottom of this?