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Unfriend or unfollow?

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ohflipit · 01/10/2020 16:28

Someone I know through an acquaintance sent me a friend request on Facebook. We are not friends but I do see them at a mutual weekly sports event so I accepted. Now my Facebook feed is filled with their far right racist memes! I could just unfollow and keep the peace but am tempted to unfriend to make a point. He will ask why. But ... he's one of those guys who is so stupid there's no arguing with him, he just doesn't understand! So, quietly unfollow or unfriend and tell him why when asked?

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Cam2020 · 01/10/2020 20:16

Definitely unfriend. If you're asked why, you can say you don't like his views.

fahrt · 01/10/2020 20:43

What did you write in the end OP?

DH and I ended up closing down our Facebook accounts because of idiots like this. Life is just too short.

Howlooseisyourgoose · 01/10/2020 21:00

Love that you’re going to say something OP 😍

Irisheyesrsmiling · 02/10/2020 02:56

Love you will say something. We all have a role in being anti-racist. I think what you planned to say is perfect.

AwaAnBileYerHeid · 02/10/2020 03:41

What kind of racist posts are they? If you're going to feel awkward if he brings up why you're no longer a friend on Facebook then I'd just unfollow.

Howlooseisyourgoose · 03/10/2020 10:37

@AwaAnBileYerHeid you are part of the problem.

AwaAnBileYerHeid · 03/10/2020 17:55

@Howlooseisyourgoose no, I'm not part of any problem. You have no idea why I asked this question, you (as is usual of people of your rude, assumption ilk) made an assumption and went on the attack. I'd say folk like you are part of a major problem within society.

AwaAnBileYerHeid · 03/10/2020 17:55

*assumptive

PeachesTheFlamingo · 03/10/2020 18:28

Why would you even entertain unfollowing and remaining "friends" with this racist?!

Unfriend them. Report the racist to Facebook!

If the racist asks why you unfriended them, tell them it's because they are racist and you are not, you do not want to be associated with a racist, and you do not wish to be bombarded by their racist posts.

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