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AIBU?

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If AIBU has been around during the blitz

188 replies

briebuiltthiscity · 27/09/2020 12:16

(Lighthearted)
If Aibu has been around what would have been posted? Would we really see the “blitz spirit” or more “ndn seems to have more rations than me - Aibu to report them”.

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LunaNorth · 27/09/2020 13:33

‘AIBU to think that Hitler might be a bit misunderstood? We’re only ever shown him ranting, and really, that’s just a snapshot of his day. We should all stop being so judgy.’

Fckingfuming · 27/09/2020 13:33

WIBU to ask Mrs Smith at number 14 to board her front window? Her house was bombed in the latest raid and the view through to the missing back wall is making me uncomfortable.

LunaNorth · 27/09/2020 13:34

‘AIBU to think that sugar, bacon and butter really shouldn’t be included in rations? It’s just encouraging unhealthy eating habits.’

seayork2020 · 27/09/2020 13:35

My husband says our child looks like the air raid warden and he keeps on looking at me funny, should I stamp my foot and tell him he is being unreasonable?

LunaNorth · 27/09/2020 13:38

‘Last night there was an air raid, and my NDN started banging on our shelter door, demanding to be let in. She hasn’t got around to building hers yet as her husband is away fighting and she reckons she can’t manage it. Funny, because she manages to entertain the local spivs easily enough. Maybe she should get them to build it for her.
WIBU to tell the CFer to piss off?’

LunaNorth · 27/09/2020 13:40

AIBU to write to my MP about the air raid sirens? I’ve had a migraine all day thanks to the caterwauling. They could turn it down a bit, or use a nice ambient sound, like ocean waves or wind chimes.

briebuiltthiscity · 27/09/2020 13:42

@Gingerkittykat 😂

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briebuiltthiscity · 27/09/2020 13:43

@Tombero you have a Dh problem not a MIL problem.

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x2boys · 27/09/2020 13:46

Aibu to call my new baby boy Adolf ,it's such a lovely and unusual name .

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 27/09/2020 13:48

AIBU to write to my DS's RSM? DS is doing basic training at the moment and I don't think anyone has realised how sensitive DS is and how much he needs his sleep. He's finding it really difficult to sleep on a hard bed with just some rough blankets, no quilt, and he hasn't been given a room of his own, which was a shock. They expect him to make his own bed too. He hadn't a clue at first, because naturally I've always done that for him, as any good mother would. The RSM actually shouted at him when DS said he was expecting the army would have WRACs coming in each morning to do these unmanly jobs. I've always taken great care with his shoes and now he says he's expected to wear great big clodhopping boots which are rubbing the back of his heels, and he's expected to polish them himself! The rough serge of his uniform is also irritating his skin and he doesn't get the kind of food he's used to and he's having to mix with some very rough types and the amount of running around and marching and standing is just ludicrous for a lad who's been used to a nice clean desk job inside with fixed hours, proper tea breaks and an hour for lunch.

I'm worried sick about him. How on earth will he manage?

Jaxhog · 27/09/2020 13:54

Would a German invasion really be so bad? At least they'd stop bombing us and we could have a social life again. I've rearranged my wedding twice now because the halls keep being bombed. It's so unfair.

SallySeven · 27/09/2020 13:55

Oh dear Jaxhog that made me laugh.

briebuiltthiscity · 27/09/2020 13:57

@Jaxhog yanbu - I’m here on France and other than a few neighbours disappearing it’s absolutely fine.

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MitziK · 27/09/2020 13:58

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I am the housekeeper for an ageing Professor. I run the house, manage the staff and take pride in everything I do.

For some unknown reason, the Professor has taken in a group of children from London, two boys and two girls. They are disruptive, noisy, one cries at the drop of a hat and they're always sneaking into rooms where they shouldn't be and disappearing. I don't know what one of them is up to, but there was snow on the stair runner last week - I was mortified when guiding some sightseers around and had to take the matter up with Betty and Ivy; although they're no better than they should be, it shouldn't have been there in the first place.

What's more, I am certain that they've sneaked some simply frightful pets into the manor house with them, as I keep finding bits of coarse fur, like a horse, deer or even (shudder) a RAT, on their coats.

The Professor is a bit distracted most of the time and seems to revel in flights of fancy, so doesn't seem to understand how trying this is for a woman of my station.

AIBU to insist that this awful creatures are sent to a farmhouse somewhere where they can burn off their excessive energy, make all the noise they wish and have a woman who can mother them in the absence of their own, who seems to have been a bit of a flighty one, as she's sent them out rather than to family somewhere?

JunoJigglewick · 27/09/2020 14:00

AIBU? I really don't understand why I can't go on holiday. I need a break, half the men from the town are off enjoying the weather in Italy and Greece and I've heard even Spain. I understand that some people have had a bit of an unfortunate time (bombed gardens and less access to sugar and so on), I'm not a monster, it's just I could really do with some Me Time. So unfair.

briebuiltthiscity · 27/09/2020 14:02

@JunoJigglewick have you considered a staycation? Jersey and Guernsey are lovely if you don’t mind the odd nazi.

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trouncedaast · 27/09/2020 14:12

AIBU? Surely over here in Northern Ireland we can't possibly be bombed? The German planes will never be able to fly this far?"

1forAll74 · 27/09/2020 14:14

AIBU Because it annoys me , that four of my attractive female neighbours ,go out three nights a week during black out, They get all dolled up, with red lipstick and go to a pub in town where all the yanks from a nearby base go to drink. The Americans buy them drinks, and give them nylons sometimes, And here is me, staying home darning the kids socks at night, and peeling potatoes for tomorrow. !

(I was born in the war years, so memories of such )

katy1213 · 27/09/2020 14:17

AIBU was around in the war. It was called Mass Observation.

DameFanny · 27/09/2020 14:29

I haven't been able to get my corns shaved in a month because my lovely district nurse has been sent to work at a "military" hospital. AIBU to think that enough is enough and we should just be getting back to normal now? My feet really hurt Sad

Kolsch · 27/09/2020 14:29

AIBU to write to the war minister to ask him if it's possible to have a timetable for dropping bombs?
Last night my sister was putting a wave in my hair when we had to go into the shelter.
Now I have a wave on one side of my head and straight hair on the other.
Also, does anyone know when mascara might be back on sale? Using coal dust and spit is playing havoc with my eyes.
And does anyone know how I can stop the neighborhood dogs from following me and licking the gravy browning off my legs?

MagpieSong · 27/09/2020 14:32

These are fantastic!

Neighbour reported me for smoking out the front of the house in the evening because it’s against blackout regulations. I’m furious - Aibu?

My son is acting like he’s in charge if the house. Ever since he got a letter telling him to paint a line on the bath, he’s been checking every family members water to see if the waterline is above the painted line. I just want one bath where I can lie back and relax. Is he BU?

Air raid siren going off, children hate the Anderson, just put baby to bed who isn’t sleeping. Would I be being unreasonable to leave them in their beds? I mean, we haven’t had any bombs here for 2 years now.

My children have been evacuated to the countryside. Apparently the loo there is outside and shared and they have to walk for ages in the dark if they need a wee at night. AIBU to think all houses should have an indoor toilet of their own and I should suggest this to the family who’ve taken them in?

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 27/09/2020 14:34

AIBU to think we could all do worse than stick with rationing, Woolton Pie, the National Loaf and so on when it's all over? I feel sure we're all better for not being able to eat much sugar, meat, bacon, cheese, butter and cream, and think of the food miles from all those bananas and oranges we normally import! We've got lots of cabbages and swede growing in the front garden. That and a bag of lentils and we're fine. Also guarantees nobody wants to share our Anderson shelter, which is a big plus.

PigletJohn · 27/09/2020 15:07

my neighbours' house has been bombed and their bodies taken away. AIBU to loot their tinned food and valuables? If I don't, somebody else will.

safariboot · 27/09/2020 15:16

AIBU to spank my children for ripping off the sweet shop? I caught them making fake ration coupons. DH says good for them and they should make some more so we have more food!

You don't have a ration problem, you have a DH problem.