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To expect her to pay half if she stays?

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Overitallllll · 26/09/2020 14:42

So I’ve booked a hotel room for one night as a treat. I’ve been with my kids for 6 months straight so I decided to have this one night to be left alone. To have a wine and junk food and relax.

My friend lives in the area and we agreed to meet up for lunch and a drink. She knows the reason for my visit and she said well she might aswell stay over.

I said if she wants to stay she could pay half, she’s now very offended and said I was going to pay regardless. AIBU?

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Branleuse · 26/09/2020 18:07

Tell her you wont sleep if shes in the room so if she wants to stay over she will need her own room

CoffeeBeansGalore · 26/09/2020 18:28

I used to have a "friend" like this. Got fed up of her constantly assuming things/situations that would benefit her were up for grabs. She would ask for things/favours but phrased it as though she was doing you a favour by asking. It was really weird. We are no longer in contact.

Disfordarkchocolate · 26/09/2020 18:41

Christ no, you need that night on your own. Don't even let her stay. I am desperate to do this.

AlwaysCheddar · 26/09/2020 18:47

She’ll put the dinner in your hotel bill! Have a night alone, long Bath...

Figgygal · 26/09/2020 18:48

She’s very rude

WiseUpJanetWeiss · 26/09/2020 18:51

Of course she can’t stay. Where will she sleep? She can’t share the bed with you unless she’s in your “bubble”.

ControvertialYeti · 27/09/2020 05:59

Are you two romantically involved? If not could she book her own room?

makingmammaries · 27/09/2020 07:27

I used to have a “friend” like that. Haven’t seen her in 25 years, and that’s why.

caringcarer · 27/09/2020 10:23

Tell her to book a room of her own if she wants to stay.

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