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AIBU?

So rude of DH

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SmellyDogBed · 23/09/2020 21:55

We briefly visited my grandmother earlier to take her some shopping. She got a big box of broken biscuits out and DH ripped into the box, complained that it was “full of custard creams” and just started throwing them onto the coffee table saying “these can get to fuck” whilst hunting for a specific type of biscuit. It’s not the swearing that got me ( my grandma swears more than I do) but literally chucking unwanted biscuits onto the table?? I told him I thought he was being rude and he says I am over reacting as my grandma wasn’t bothered but she clearly wasn’t happy as she marched into the kitchen to grab a packet of Ringtons instead. Aibu thinking he was rude?? I’d never do that in front of his family. He’s refusing to acknowledge it now and has got a face on over it. I’m so embarrassed.

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Leaannb · 23/09/2020 22:20

He would have to go

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Dawnlassie · 23/09/2020 22:21

Sounds mentally unstable.

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iloveruby · 23/09/2020 22:22

I would be mortified but I'm assuming this isnt out if character for him?

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Tearingmyhairout1998 · 23/09/2020 22:29

He sounds very irrational, not on steroids is he?!

Glad to hear someone else uses Ringtons though! They’re my favourite Grin

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AriesTheRam · 23/09/2020 22:29

He sounds v passionate about biscuits thats for sure!

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pussycatinboots · 23/09/2020 22:32

Get him a pack of Custard Creams for Christmas, from Gran with love x
😉🤣

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AuditAngel · 23/09/2020 22:36

How old is he?

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BigBadVoodooHat · 23/09/2020 22:37

Is this the same poster who has been relentlessly starting weird, vaguely gibberishy threads over the last few days ~ ones about unexpected gifts, drunk plumbers, rogue tenants, etc? Confused

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PyongyangKipperbang · 23/09/2020 22:37

What a fucking prick. I would be bloody mortified.

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AuditAngel · 23/09/2020 22:37

Because he is behaving like a child

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1Morewineplease · 23/09/2020 22:40

That's astonishingly rude.

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newtb · 23/09/2020 22:43

Is his mental age 3 or less?

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Cryalot2 · 23/09/2020 22:46

He really did that?
I would have been mortified, swearing and behaving like that over a biscuit is ott. Does he have a quick temper?
Sounds as though he needs anger management and told that this not acceptable. The height of bad manners.

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goingtotown · 23/09/2020 22:47

I doubt that this is the first time he’s behaved like a spoilt brat.

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Therollockingrogue · 23/09/2020 22:47

My god he sounds like a right dick.
Grandmas have earned their right to filthy language, but that doesn’t mean your DH is allowed to swear in her home. He shouldn’t, out of respect.
It is true though, that the broken biscuits have been dire lately. In fact we had one box with over 50% garibaldi Sad. Anyway there is a general rule that the broken biscuit box is STRICTLY no rummaging, it’s lucky dip. And we’re in a pandemic. His biscuit rummaging could have deathly consequences.
This man did not deserve the Rington’s being brought out, he isn’t royalty.

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TheMistressQuickly · 23/09/2020 22:48

Wtf are ringtons?

Found this post funny. Sorry 🤣

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Shizzlestix · 23/09/2020 22:48

He sounds like a proper arsehole. Has he no manners? I just can’t imagine an adult behaving in this way.

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Wibblypiggly · 23/09/2020 22:49

I’d have been SO embarrassed of my partner behaved this way. What an appalling series of actions. Ugh. Who are these entitled men who get ‘a face on’ when women dare tell them they’re behaving like absolute scum.

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wildcherries · 23/09/2020 22:52

What a child. Embarrasing.

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Glitteryone · 23/09/2020 22:54

🤣🤣🤣

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Toddlerteaplease · 23/09/2020 22:55

He sounds awful.

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ShellsandSand · 23/09/2020 22:55

I'd buy him a box of family circle...as a leaving present.

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anorangeaday · 23/09/2020 22:57

That’s so rude

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RaininSummer · 23/09/2020 22:58

That seems astonishingly rude. Is he usually as ignorant and thoughtless?

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lioncitygirl · 23/09/2020 23:00

Nah. He’s rude. Yuck.

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