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to be convinced this early that he's 'the one'

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pineopard · 23/09/2020 21:43

When I say 'the one' I simply mean that I think he's the one I've been looking for, that I could settle down with, and probably fall in love with in time. I've had a small number relationships and have a son. My son's dad was abusive and I haven't dated for quite a long time. Got back in to the dating game. Went on dates with 4 people before meeting current guy. We've been on 7/8 dates over 2 or so months. We both have our 'baggage' but have been very honest with each other from the start, which has been a relief, and refreshing for the both of us. I can feel myself already developing quite strong feelings for him, and I'm finding it quite unnerving (also exciting) that I feel this way so early on. I understand it is still very much the honeymoon period, however it just feels so... right. I don't think any relationship I've had has felt like it clicked so well before.

Am I getting ahead of myself here? Is it normal to just 'know' when something is right?

I've done a huge amount of work on myself and know exactly what I do and don't want/need.

Did you feel like this at the start of your relationship?

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KarmaStar · 24/09/2020 11:25

Yanbu,be happy and enjoy it for what it is.don't look ahead to the future.live for the day and don't worry about what's going to happen in the next month,you can't change it.by just living every day in happiness and not thinking about what it means going forward you're not putting pressure on yourselves too early.
I really hope you and up a happy forever couple/family.😀

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