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Do you know what a sham is?

133 replies

CostaCosta · 16/09/2020 22:53

Ds came home from school having learnt this word. I have never heard of a sham (only in the sense of abbreviated "shambles."

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CuntyMcBollocks · 17/09/2020 02:43

It means something that's false or fake I think

SilverOnToast · 17/09/2020 02:56

@WeBuiltThisBuffetOnSausageRoll that cross stitch pattern is amazing!!

BetsyBigNose · 17/09/2020 05:03

There's a folly over looking Bath called "Sham Castle". It is a screen wall with a central pointed arch flanked by two 3-storey circular turrets, which extend sideways to a 2-storey square tower at each end of the wall.

So it's basically a wall, faked to look like the front of a castle (hence 'Sham'), so from a distance, it looks like an actual castle. The effect is even more convinceing when it's lit up at night.

Notajogger · 17/09/2020 06:44

I have never heard of a sham (only in the sense of abbreviated "shambles."

It's not an abbreviation for "shambles" is it? That's an entirely different word with a different etymology.

Pipandmum · 17/09/2020 06:49

My first thought was a pillow. Second was something fake.

GreyishDays · 17/09/2020 06:50

@Gatelodge

Well, I assume the pillow sham is a ‘sham’ because it’s a sort of decorative false front that hides the actual pillow-case.
Indeed:

“ The term "pillow sham" means a pillow with a "false front", stemming from the notion of "a trick". In the 1700's, specially made pillowcases were made to create decorative pillows with removable covers. These "false front" pillow covers became known as pillow shams!”

NoIDontWatchLoveIsland · 17/09/2020 06:59

Sham can also have important legal meaning, eg a scheme that is false or without substance is usually looked through/disregarded for legal purposes & considered to be sham.

Suzi888 · 17/09/2020 07:01

@NoIDontWatchLoveIsland

Sham can also have important legal meaning, eg a scheme that is false or without substance is usually looked through/disregarded for legal purposes & considered to be sham.
This ^^
Captainrachy · 17/09/2020 07:25

In Ireland we use it to mean friend. “What’s up sham?”

HPandTheNeverEndingBedtime · 17/09/2020 07:30

According to Urban dictionary it is also used in Rep. Of Ireland to mean chav.

Bairnsmum05 · 17/09/2020 07:35

Pillow sham up here in Scotland so it is most definitely used in English language!!

Nottherealslimshady · 17/09/2020 07:39

I thought it was short for shamble, which means shit show, screw up, unorganised kind of thing.

NotBadConsidering · 17/09/2020 07:44

Father Ted knew what it meant at least:

m.youtube.com/watch?v=K1z_PwtLDmQ

Beautiful3 · 17/09/2020 08:16

Fake/con.

Witchend · 17/09/2020 08:38

Fake.
As in Sham-poo Grin

SonjaMorgan · 17/09/2020 08:52

Was this on IQ before? I have heard it elsewhere but not sure where.

SonjaMorgan · 17/09/2020 09:07

*QI

lottiegarbanzo · 17/09/2020 09:10

Of course, 'a pretence'.

Oh how I remember the childhood hilarity when I learnt this word, around age 8, about 'shampoo'!!

lottiegarbanzo · 17/09/2020 09:11

It is not short for shambles and does not mean disorganised.

MsStillwell · 17/09/2020 09:14

This is a classic example of MNers not RTFT and we have endless people coming on to say, po-faced, "It means a scam. How can you not know that?".

I love the fact that this was a year 1 student! I was imagining it coming up in a GCSE literature lesson.

lottiegarbanzo · 17/09/2020 09:19

It is classic case of there being value in multiple MNetters answering the OP's question directly, so that she gets a sense of how common or otherwise this knowledge is and gains insight into different useages.

Fannybawz · 17/09/2020 09:48

Decorative pillow

BadBanana · 17/09/2020 09:49

Never heard of a ‘sham marriage’?

TempestHayes · 17/09/2020 09:50

Yes. It's used more in the US than here these days.

I find quite a lot of US terminology isn't as well known in the UK as I'd have assumed.

TempestHayes · 17/09/2020 09:51

I mean, the pillow version. Most Brits will understand sham as in fake, but not of the pillow.

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