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Do you know what a sham is?

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CostaCosta · 16/09/2020 22:53

Ds came home from school having learnt this word. I have never heard of a sham (only in the sense of abbreviated "shambles."

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TheWhalrus · 16/09/2020 23:00

In a medical context it can be applied to the control in a clinical trial involving surgery (where they do all the things not associated with the intervention being tested, but not the intervention obvs). Not sure that was the intended context, although in this sense I think it does indeed mean 'fake'.

Comefromaway · 16/09/2020 23:00

Yes, a pillow sham is a false front.

ShebaShimmyShake · 16/09/2020 23:01

I've never heard of a pillow sham. According to the internet, "sham" as short for that is a North American term.

wowfudge · 16/09/2020 23:04

It's quite an old fashioned term to me. Where was it used OP that your DS picked it up?

Dontwanttobeyourmonkeywench · 16/09/2020 23:04

Sham is a flash front/ scam unless you're in a certain part of NI, in which case it's slang for mate i.e. alright sham

Dontwanttobeyourmonkeywench · 16/09/2020 23:04

false front

CostaCosta · 16/09/2020 23:07

@wowfudge in a year 1 phonics class. The teacher asked for words starting with "sh", his friend said "sham, pillow sham!"

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peakygal · 16/09/2020 23:10

Sham in Ireland is for friend

Itsabeautifuldayheyhey · 16/09/2020 23:11

You do know you could use google to find this out? Grin

Sham means false or fake or a trick.

It isn't an abbreviation for shambles and saying 'the business deal was a comlete sham' doesn't mean the deal was a shambles. In that context it would mean the transaction was fake in some way. Not a real transaction.

A sham marriage is a fake marriage such as marrying to get citizenship without any intention of having a committed loving partnership with your spouse.

CostaCosta · 16/09/2020 23:14

@Itsabeautifuldayheyhey sorry, I should have put I knew this meaning of sham, not pillow sham!

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Krieger · 16/09/2020 23:17

A shambles correctly is a butcher's slaughterhouse.

1990s · 16/09/2020 23:17

Pillow shams are what Americans call pillow cases

RaspberrySkies · 16/09/2020 23:17

Ooo well you learn something new every day...

https://www.dadabc.com/blogs/news/pillow-cases-vs-pillow-shams-whats-the-difference

1990s · 16/09/2020 23:17

Very weird that that was used in a phonics class in the UK unless the kid was American?

Gatelodge · 16/09/2020 23:18

@ShebaShimmyShake

I've never heard of a pillow sham. According to the internet, "sham" as short for that is a North American term.
Yes, I’ve come across it in US novels — I think pillow shams are referenced in Laura Ingalls Wilder somewhere.
Heyha · 16/09/2020 23:20

Wasn't there a TV character who used to say something about "this is a sham, of a mockery, of a mockery, of a sham"? Anyone help me out, CBA to try to Google. Or am I imagining it?

I understand a sham to be a con or trick rather than an abbreviated shambles.

Stripesgalore · 16/09/2020 23:21

Sham is not short for shambles.

A shambles is a disorganised mess, like the street the Shambles in York where the butchers traded.

A sham is a facade, a fake.

Flatpackback · 16/09/2020 23:22

Phoney, fake, not what it seems, pretend, false.

oakleaffy · 16/09/2020 23:23

Sham to me means a fake.

pigsDOfly · 16/09/2020 23:24

Surprised how many people haven't heard the word sham.

It's a perfectly ordinary English word.

Glitteryone · 16/09/2020 23:26

Where I’m from (Ireland) sham means ‘mate’.

Although it’s only really used by people in their early to mid 20s I’d say.

It would be typical to hear younger fellas saying to their friends ‘alright sham what’s the craic?’

Gatelodge · 16/09/2020 23:26

Well, I assume the pillow sham is a ‘sham’ because it’s a sort of decorative false front that hides the actual pillow-case.

Zilla1 · 16/09/2020 23:27

I thought sham (deception) and shambles (a chaotic mess, possibly originally from the butchery of livestock in medieval times) had a different etymological basis.

Zilla1 · 16/09/2020 23:27

Sorry, stripes, I didn't see your post.

Stripesgalore · 16/09/2020 23:27

Yes, it’s an ordinary word. Just asked DS and he knew.

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