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Who put the Mom in Mumsnet?

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tornadoalley · 16/09/2020 11:29

I have see mum/mother written as Mom, a fair bit on Mumsnet recently.

Do we have a lot of American Moms on here?

Has Mumsnet gone transatlantic?

Have we lost our 'Mum' to 'Mom' in the UK?

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Pootles34 · 16/09/2020 11:30

It's 'Mom' in Birmingham, maybe lots of Brummies around?

AnneLovesGilbert · 16/09/2020 11:30

This has been done to death. It’s regional. Mom and Mam are as common in the U.K. as mum.

Fromage · 16/09/2020 11:33

Yup. Midlanders, innit.

Cocomarine · 16/09/2020 11:34

This has been done so many times.
Regional.
Step outside your bubble, OP!

middleager · 16/09/2020 11:35

Stop being goady.

I'm from Birmingham (UK!) where Mom and Nan have been used way back. My Nan who was born in 1914 used it and I daresay her parents before her.

It's regional dialect.

JamieLeeCurtains · 16/09/2020 11:36

Mom, Ma, Mam, Mammy, Mum, Mama, Mater ... all to be found around the islands of the UK and Ireland and the latter example in the Rees-Mogg household.

JamieLeeCurtains · 16/09/2020 11:38

We need a new acronym, perhaps.

NTA = not this again.

SassenachWitch · 16/09/2020 11:38

I’m a Mom (West Mids)

middleager · 16/09/2020 11:45

@JamieLeeCurtains

We need a new acronym, perhaps.

NTA = not this again.

Absolutely!
Pootles34 · 16/09/2020 11:45

JamieLee I was just about to ask where in the UK uses Mater!

BusySittingDown · 16/09/2020 11:47

What they said.

And yes, I think there are quite a few Americans on MN.

GotOutOfBedOnTheWrongSide · 16/09/2020 12:00

I'm a Brummie
I say Mom and I am a Mom. I'd find it really odd if my son called me Mum or Mummy.

CoffeeWithMyOxygen · 16/09/2020 12:00

I’m from Birmingham (and still live here!) and never say ‘Mom’, it annoys me when people claim we all say that here. We don’t, I’ve always said Mum, my DS will call me Mum and DH also from the Midlands says Mum.

Poppyismyfavourite · 16/09/2020 12:03

@Pootles34 and Chummy in Call the midwife!

GotOutOfBedOnTheWrongSide · 16/09/2020 12:03

Although I'll just add that I've experienced a bit of snobbery about it at work as people there seem to say Mum so normally if I'm writing it down I'll use Mum.

JustCallMeGriffin · 16/09/2020 12:04

I'm mam not mum. The UK is not full of "mums"

I can't get wound up about someone using mom...mater I'd probably raise an eyebrow!

ReggieCat · 16/09/2020 12:05

My husband's a Brummie and he has a Mom.

I'm from Yorkshire and I had a Mam.

RubertRoo · 16/09/2020 12:07

Staffordshire here - all use mom round here

Mintychoc1 · 16/09/2020 12:08

I can live with "Mom" if people promise me it's regional and not American.
It's "gotten" I can't stand. Blatant Americanism. And anyone who says "oh no, it's old English - ill gotten gains and all that" - that's rubbish. No one in the UK said "gotten" 20 years ago. I can't stand it!

Frazzlerock · 16/09/2020 12:08

I didn't know we used 'Mom' in the UK until I met my colleague who is Irish and she uses 'Mom' all the time. So yes it is regional in the UK and not just a US thing.

sharonelizabeth · 16/09/2020 12:08

I’m from the Black Country and it’s mom.

Heptember · 16/09/2020 12:10

Mom is also common in a little pocket of West Yorks- my great Granny was a mom, nothing to do with any americanism (not that I'm sure what is so wrong with americanisms)

middleager · 16/09/2020 12:10

@GotOutOfBedOnTheWrongSide

Although I'll just add that I've experienced a bit of snobbery about it at work as people there seem to say Mum so normally if I'm writing it down I'll use Mum.
Agreed. I first experienced this at a redbrick uni and then in a sector, where I worked alongside a number of people who'd been privately educated and they always used 'Mum'.
TheSeedsOfADream · 16/09/2020 12:11

There are some MEN as well OP.
I'm in Italy and we are mamma.
Fill your boots.

tornadoalley · 16/09/2020 12:12

I'm stunned! Lived here all my life and I never knew this! I know Mam, as my mother was from Newcastle and always signed herself Mam. Mammy (Irish father) also familiar.

So how do British people actually pronounce Mom? Americans say it is a specific drawl. How is it said in parts of Birmingham then?

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