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AIBU - to be thinking about not paying?

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HumptyDumpty1947 · 02/09/2020 15:07

My father died at the end of July. I told his landlord and cleared his flat immediately.

Today I received a bill for nearly two thousand pounds from the landlord - for six weeks notice (when the flat was empty - except for their contractors getting it ready for the next tenant). They. have also said that I am responsible for paying the council tax for six weeks after he died.

I am feeling very fed up and minded not to pay - but I have never even considered doing anything like this before and know I am very emotional at the moment and may not be being reasonable. I would be grateful for your advice on what you would do.

My fathers estate won't cover the funeral costs so it would be for me to pay.

I don't mind paying any of his bills but feel annoyed towards the landlord. They are an almshouse - a very rich charity (part of which includes two of the most expensive independent schools in the country so money for them really isn't an issue). Unfortunately they weren't especially kind to my father whilst he lived with them and many of the services that we were told would be provided weren't - so, unfortunately, I dont really feel under any moral obligation /or debt of gratitude towards them. .

I also dont really see why I should have to pay for services (such as as are paid for through council tax) when we didn't receive them. My father was dead and I pay council tax where I live. We didn't and couldn't access the flat during the six week period so had no benefit from it.

If they had been kind towards my father I might feel differently but I dont. I would resent making this payment but I do realise that perhaps I have to. I'm not sure what the legal obligations are once someone has died and what the relatives are responsible for. If they had been good with my father I wouldn't think twice about it but given some of the problems he experienced I would really resent making the payment. What would you do?

OP posts:
milkybebe · 02/09/2020 20:51

Firstly I am sorry for your loss and it's the last thing you would want to deal with. I'm assuming it's not under your name, so no you're not liable to pay anything. People/companies are like vultures trying their luck, you are not liable to pay a penny.

BameChange123 · 03/09/2020 07:33

Complain to Almshouse trustees. If you don't feel up to dealing with your dad's estate plus there not being much if any of an estate i think you can relinquish handling so long as you haven't inter-meddle with the estate,like paying any bills. Seek legal advice I got a free half hour with a solicitor

NotEverythingIsBlackandWhite · 03/09/2020 08:44

You do not need to pay Council Tax when you are dead. It has no connection with the length of a tenancy.
My mum died earlier this year and lived in LA housing. Yes, we paid rent up to the date her place was emptied. We were not charged Council Tax after the date of death. CT is paid by the tenant, not a LL so the LL should not be charging you for that.

NotEverythingIsBlackandWhite · 03/09/2020 08:47

As a OP stated, rent owed should be paid by the estate. If there is no money in the estate to cover it, it isn't up to the relatives of the deceased to pay it. The LL will have to write it off as a bad debt.

copperoliver · 03/09/2020 09:36

I'd take professional advice. X

MusicWithRocksIn1t · 03/09/2020 10:04

I'm sorry for your loss.

We had this when my nan died at the end of last year. She lived in private sheltered housing and the warden kept bleating on about us as a family needing to pay the money for the 2 weeks to took to clear her house even after I pointed out that her rent had been paid for the month only a few days before her death and we were still well within that month.

They tried to get counseil tax too and then tried to insist we decorated the whole house!. So it was fit for the next tennant to move into when we handed the keys back in. My nan had lived there for over 20 years and they had done little to none maintenance during that time. They hadn't even replaced her 30+ yo toilet (after dozens of verbal and written complaints from us) that she couldn't flush herself as it was broken. she had to ask her carers or one of us to do it for her!

The warden kept saying we would have to pay for the place to be decorated if we didn't do it as myself and my DM were executors.
She was told to fuck off. There wasn't even enough in the estate to cover a simple funeral so God only knows where she thought the money was coming from. Utter CFs.

KarmaStar · 03/09/2020 10:38

Condolences for your loss,you are not responsible for council tax and the landlord is trying it on.
Refuse to pay,tell him to try and get money from the estate!nasty piece of work.I hope he gives up fast and leaves you in peace to grieve for your dad.Flowers

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