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AIBU in feeling this rage with my DH

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Kitten3 · 26/08/2020 18:57

Last night was first night out with DH and we had a great time without our usual baggage of three young children.
On the way home, it started to absolutely pelt it down with rain. Across the road was a young woman wearing a white t shirt that got slightly soaked. My b husband kept looking over repeatedly.

I’ve been feeling absolutely incandescent with rage since then. He has form for this, always checking other women out, he must think I’m bloody blind. In the past I’ve just dismissed it. But for some reason, last night was the last straw.
He has no idea why I’ve gone all cold. Am
I being completely nuts?
I just feel really unhappy that he can’t even have the decency to behave appropriately- I’ve no problem with checking out attractive people, but I wouldn’t do it openly in the presence of a partner.

What would you do??

OP posts:
eeyore228 · 26/08/2020 21:02

I don’t know OP that’s a bit OTT. I don’t think I’ve ever had an issue with DH looking as long as it’s not an uncomfortable pervy look ie drooling at the mouth type scenario. I’ve seen a few for blokes and thought wow! Isn’t that a human reaction? It doesn’t mean he doesn’t find you attractive.

KarlKennedysDurianFruit · 26/08/2020 23:44

I wouldn't like it, because I didn't marry a misogynistic sleazebag, I would've called it there and then though. 'did she give you permission to continually ogle her because she had the misfortune of being rained on? No, she didn't. You're embarrassing yourself'

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