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AIBU to dislike eating birthday cake?

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HubbabubbaT · 19/08/2020 16:21

Something about birthday cake particularly vanilla sponge and buttercream monstrosities really makes me feel unwell. If I do ever eat it I feel queasy for a while afterwards.. I don't know if it's just me.
We went to in-laws the other day for a meal, and they offered leftover birthday cake for dessert as one of them had just celebrated their 60th. I refused politely, they asked why, I said although I didn't mind it for some reason it always makes my stomach turn. Cue shock horror from M-I-L! AIBU or do other people have the same reaction to it too?

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Beautiful3 · 19/08/2020 17:51

I'm with you there. My children and I dislike birthday cake because it makes us feel sick! My eldest birthday is coming up and shes asked for ben and Jerry's ice cream instead of cake.

everythingbackbutyou · 20/08/2020 08:24

I’m in Canada and I’d bloody kill for a slice of British birthday cake, store bought or otherwise Cake

Queenoftheashes · 20/08/2020 08:54

Mmm cake. If I’ve made it myself with Clarence court eggs it’s irresistible and particularly if I’ve added a layer of dark ganache.
Costco cake and similar not so much. I don’t get why people go on about it... plastic cake.

HeronLanyon · 20/08/2020 09:00

I don’t have a sweet tooth and a whole piece of cake with icing can (not always) Male my stomach turn too.

That cake /salt thread tickled my fancy though. I’ve been thinking of cake with Generous scattering of roasted salted pumpkin seeds or similar. Grin

wigglerose · 21/08/2020 11:04

It's ok not to like things, I hate baked beans. But you could have declined in a politer way.

SenorFrog · 21/08/2020 11:20

Totally with you, I hate cake. I always get shocked expressions from other people too.

Bloomburger · 21/08/2020 11:21

🤢 hate it. Especially when 11 little darlings blow the candles out and their spit lands all over it!!

boltzmannbrains · 21/08/2020 11:41

It’s disgusting.

Chocolate cake, carrot cake, my favourite fresh strawberry cake, or a proper home made Victoria sponge with just a bit of jam, are all lovely. Commercial white sponge with icing is vile!

boltzmannbrains · 21/08/2020 11:51

I’ve been thinking of cake with Generous scattering of roasted salted pumpkin seeds or similar. grin

Ooh!!

I like experimenting with baking. My dad asked me to make a fruit cake (ugh) every year, and in order to make one that’s palatable for people who didn’t grow up under rationing I ended up creating a recipe that used fresh crushed pineapple, macadamia nuts, and was shot through with mulled wine-infused caramel.

Thecobwebsarewinning · 21/08/2020 12:00

I love a slice of shop birthday cake with buttercream icing. It’s got to be an all butter one though, I can’t be doing with hydrogenated fats or palm oil. I also can’t be doing with eating it at a birthday party. It’s best the morning after with some nice hot coffee.

Beebopbad · 21/08/2020 12:03

I got norovirus after eating 2 Krispy Kreme donuts. I'm with you. Dough plus sugar plus cream.

GreyishDays · 21/08/2020 12:06

I don’t think stomach turning means what you think it does.

I think you meant it upsets your stomach. I think most people use stomach turning to mean you find the idea of it disgusting.

EveryDayIsADuvetDay · 21/08/2020 12:09

if lots of icing, i sometimes put that to one side
then pick at eating bits of it slowly Hmm

and avoid bits that anyone's spat on in the candle blowing out ceremony

EveryDayIsADuvetDay · 21/08/2020 12:14

I also like savoury muffins. I was very disappointed to order a spinach muffin in a cafe last week - and be served with one of those toastable muffins with spinach in.

AIBU to dislike eating birthday cake?
IHaveBrilloHair · 21/08/2020 12:58

Eww, what in the name of fucking pine nuts is that?
Savoury muffins are flat, should be cut in half, toasted, and served with lots of butter and cheese.

Itsatoughgig · 21/08/2020 13:12

@Lilybet1980

Try putting some salt on it?
Well played
Poppyismyfavourite · 21/08/2020 13:47

I had no idea that "birthday cake" was a specific kind of cake?? Is this right? Surely it's just a normal cake (which come in a range of flavours) with candles on?

The last "birthday cake" I ate was DHs - it was a lemon drizzle cake.
And shop-bought cakes are mostly bad in general...

Miranda15110 · 21/08/2020 13:51

I hate it too! I like a nice Victoria sponge with a jam and cream filling but butter cream and that yuk they cover cupcakes in is sickly and totally disgusting!

IamMaz · 21/08/2020 14:02

I wouldn't want to eat left over birthday cake - or ANY birthday cake [unless I had made it!!!].
I'm with you OP.

HeronLanyon · 21/08/2020 15:07

poppy I agree. Birthday cake is any cake surely (maybe not fruit cake) with some candles. I guess usually anplainish sponge with icing. I have never heard of ‘birthday cake’ as a Specific type of cake such that you could say ‘bc is my favourite’ or ‘I don’t like bc’

Poppyismyfavourite · 21/08/2020 16:13

@HeronLanyon glad it's not just me. Even as a child I had "flavoured" cakes (which my mum made). I think I usually chose chocolate Grin
Are people thinking of that American kind of cake with just plain sponge and plain buttercream-type icing?

roxfox · 21/08/2020 20:40

Yabvvvvvvvvvvu

Birthday cake is the best cake.

MissMuscle · 21/08/2020 20:49

Birthday cakes are the worst in this country. I cant stand fondant icing.

Home baked sponge cake with fresh whipped cream and strawberries... mmm!

chillandrelax · 21/08/2020 22:13

I don't really like cake (except for lemon drizzle and carrot cake) not a fan of icing either.

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