DP has been quiet and moody since waking up today, I didn't say anything at first just watched and wondered.
He been inpatient with the children who are toddlers (admittedly they were being hard work - they are kids) but his huffing and puffing was OTT.
I told him to stop being so impatient with them and perhaps give them the attention they want, they had lots of energy and wanted to play. I get the blocks out and play around with DS whilst my bath runs.
He engages with them half heartedly for a bit whilst I go for my bath and when I come out he's still in his shitty mood.
Quiet and barely saying anything, everything is an inconvenience and requires huffing and puffing. He's making it clear he's in a bad mood. You get the drift.
I sit down next to him and say "are you ok? Is something on your mind as you've been steessed all day"
He snaps back that he's fine and says "what.. can't I be annoyed when the kids are playing up, like normal people are"
I said of course he could but he's been like it all day long and he's only spent a portion of today with the kids as he's been working. I ask one more time is he sure he's ok and is there anything I can do.
Cue more huffing, biting my head off and expressing his annoyance that I've asked if he's ok in the first place.
I said ok suit yourself, if you're going to snap at me speak to me like that I'll not bother next time.
As I walk away he redirects DD from reaching for a mug then sarcastically says "oop, I'd better not say anything otherwise I'll be accused of being in a mood"
He clearly was and is in a fucking mood and is now being petulant to boot.
Was I being unreasonable for probing as to what on earth is wrong with the miserable git?
This has happened a handful of times before and every single time there has been something bothering him but he wouldn't say what.