We are trying to evolve into a society where we encourage people to talk about their troubles, there's been a particularly strong drive to encourage young men to talk as they have such high suicide rates.
And I suggested plenty of confidential places he could discuss his feelings. I never once said he shouldn't talk about it with anyone at all, merely that he should have respected his girlfriends wishes and discussed it with someone anonymous.
Difficult pifcult lemon what are you on .it was a child dont know what the face was for
This young woman got rid of a baby her choice yes but still a baby let's not pretend otherwise
I'm not pretending anything, she had a collection of cells in her body that she didn't want in there, she had a procedure to remove those cells. It wasn't a child, it was a pregnancy, they are very different things.
She chose to keep this to herself, her boyfriend has now drunkenly broken her trust. Why does his need to drunkenly blab overrule her need for something that happened to her to remain confidential?
As the mother of a son, I get why op is worried about him, and what he witnessed his girlfriend going through, of course I do.
As the mother of daughters I would be absolutely furious if their private medical details were being talked about despite them not giving permission.
In this scenario her need for privacy is paramount. There are plenty of other places could have sought support.