Since having my last child just before lockdown I've been feeling REALLY overweight and down about it, so I decided a fortnight ago to join a (virtual) weight loss group. My husband said he would do it too, although obviously not the meetings. We worked out his points.
We are both usually big drinkers so we've managed to get that under control (obviously I couldn't when pregnant etc so my part for that was easy) and now the next stage is weight and exercise.
Earlier this week I discovered DH has been not only eating the lunches I've made for him to take to work, he's also been having a shop bought sandwich and biscuits too. Obviously I was disappointed but I actually wasn't totally bothered because fair enough it's his life.
Tonight he's been moody and I asked him why, he said he's fed up of hearing about what we can and can't buy/eat and he's being controlled.
I've taken that really badly. AIBU for trying to do something that I desperately need to do FOR ME?
I do all the cooking so he doesn't have to do anything to accommodate me in that respect. I am a trained chef so it's not like he's eating salad and dust.
He's literally just flipped out because I said we shouldn't cover our meat in Nando sauce because actually we still have to remember it has points in it.
He's in every other way an amazing husband and this is actually the first proper row we've had in years.