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To think that parents should stop counting age in months after they reach two?

83 replies

Nickelallergy891 · 27/07/2020 17:51

Just saw on another thread someone wrote "My 29 month old".... They're two!!

Loads of my friends seem to do this and it makes it more of a headache to work out their children's age (I scraped a C in Maths GCSE 😂).

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Nickelallergy891 · 27/07/2020 17:52

That should read "Their children's age" obviously 🙄🤣

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Alexandernevermind · 27/07/2020 17:55

Your maths was better than mine then, and I could still work out 2 and a half. Those 6 months at a young age are significant. Anyway, parents get to choose how they describe their child's ages, not bystanders.

Nickelallergy891 · 27/07/2020 17:58

@Alexandernevermind I personally don't think it's significant enough to measure age in months at that age myself. "2 years and 5 months" is fine if one wants to be specific!

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FourPlasticRings · 27/07/2020 17:58

Nah, 29 months is more accurate. There's a world of difference between a 24 month old and a 35 month old.

Nickelallergy891 · 27/07/2020 17:59

@fourplasticrings I literally just had had to count the months to figure out the years 😂 Back to school for me!

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FourPlasticRings · 27/07/2020 17:59

And 2 years and 5 months takes a lot longer to type than 29 months but conveys the same information for anyone with basic numeracy skills.

FourPlasticRings · 27/07/2020 18:00

Sorry, OP, cross post. That came across as harsh.

Flightsoffancy · 27/07/2020 18:00

Ha ha, no, I agree with you OP. There's something rather twee about it. Can we stop calling children 'little ones' at the same time?
Flights, aged 527 months.

MaryShelley1818 · 27/07/2020 18:01

I agree but I'd go further and say after age 1!
DS was described in months when he was months old. Then he was 1, 1.5, 2, 2.5.
Obviously unless it was for a medical discussion where it was relevant.

Rtmhwales · 27/07/2020 18:01

I'm 100% with you.

My DS was premature and we counted his age in adjusted months until age 2, then just a solid 2 from then on. Which is what the doctors all suggested. So my reasoning is that if they don't bother to adjust for those few extra months past 2, why would I?

At best I'd say 2, 2.5, and 3. I don't count him in months anymore (I think he's 26..?).

Nickelallergy891 · 27/07/2020 18:01

I seem to be the minority here then - I much prefer "2 years and 5 months" to "29 months". 🤔

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FourPlasticRings · 27/07/2020 18:02

Can we stop calling children 'little ones' at the same time?

Why? It's a term of endearment.

Nickelallergy891 · 27/07/2020 18:02

I think some people just like to hang on to the "baby" phase perhaps? And use the measuring in months sort of feels comforting!

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Strokethefurrywall · 27/07/2020 18:02

Yep, agree OP.

Almost 2 1/2, just turned 3. No need to put the months FFS.

The only time age in months applies after 2 is in a medical or educational setting.

Joe Bloggs on the street doesn't give a crap.

Whatsnewpussyhat · 27/07/2020 18:03

I would say 2 and a half.

Soubriquet · 27/07/2020 18:03

Months up to the age of 2 yes

But then I prefer “he’s 2 and a half” or “almost three”

Darkestseasonofall · 27/07/2020 18:03

I'm with you OP. If a health professional or suchlike asks I think it's appropriate to give an answer in months up until about 3 y/o. BUt if someone is just making chat in a queue for example it seems ridiculous to me to say "he's 29 months" I'd just say 2, or 2 and a bit.
Some parents like to drag out the weeks too, so a 9 month old baby is 36 weeks or whatever.

Nickelallergy891 · 27/07/2020 18:04

😂 367 months young here!

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Penguin34 · 27/07/2020 18:05

@FourPlasticRings

Can we stop calling children 'little ones' at the same time?

Why? It's a term of endearment.

But what else can u say when I've forgotten their names? (Not my own obviously)
LioneIRichTea · 27/07/2020 18:06

Yes!!! I hate having to do mental maths when I ask a child’s age. In fact, after a year it should stop with the months thing!

There is a sketch somewhere, but I can’t find it, goes something like this:

Man: How old is your daughter?
Woman: She’s 42 months... do you have the time?
Man: It’s 1500 seconds past 11.

Grin
Penguin34 · 27/07/2020 18:08

I got to 20 months then it's 'coming on to 2'
Mine is 23 months so we say nearly 2.
Then it will be 2 and a bit, 2 and a half, nearly 3.

GreekOddess · 27/07/2020 18:08

I find it really annoying as well.

Up to 2 years 5 months I would say 2 years, between 2 years 5 months and 2 years 8 months I would say 2 and a half then from 2 years 9 months I would say nearly 3.

QueenofmyPrinces · 27/07/2020 18:08

YABU

There is a big difference between a child who turned two yesterday, and a child who is turning three tomorrow.

However, for ease of reading, 29 months should be: 2yrs and 5 months, or “almost two and a half”.

Nickelallergy891 · 27/07/2020 18:09

@LioneIRichTea Grin

"Darling, when are the eggs ready?"
"368 seconds for soft boiled love!"

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Undies1990 · 27/07/2020 18:09

I agree OP. It's ridiculous describing a child's age over 2 years old in months. The child is then a toddler, not a baby anymore. Perhaps there is an element of the parent wanting to hang on to the baby period.

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