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Poppiedelight · 25/07/2020 07:37

I have unfollowed them this morning. I know why would they care!?! Why do I need to tell Mumsnet? Why?? But I just want to grumble about some things!

They have seemingly made a good life financially from their YouTube blogs. I presume it's from them. I used to like the odd picture. Watch the odd video. In recent weeks they have done some bits and bobs to the garden. Absolutely fine. They put artificial grass down. Got the kids a new play park. Then fast forward a couple of months they have got a mini bar and a hot tub. Started rolling my eyes at them. Especially because they had someone trying to break in not long ago. But they still continue to tell the world what they own.
Last week the kids got a large rabbit hutch and some new pets. I saw it but scrolled past and didn't watch the video. Then the next day I was watching my Instagram stories and sue had wrote on a video that she wanted to thank everyone for their kind words and "Ellie" was feeling much better.

I read some comments (being nosey) as to what had happened to her daughter. It turned out the public had written some unkind things about the rabbits and their diet. This had led to one of her younger teens being upset. But it's ok!! Because sue sat with her and read the nice comments out and she felt happier!

what was going through my head whilst reading these comments was.....maybe it's time you stopped exposing your children to the public! Why is she allowing the public to make her kids sad? For the sake of freebies, attention and the feeling of being important? Because yes she's had 22 children and it was an interesting watch. But somehow she's completely lost her senses. She's turned her children into a TV show! She films all their birthdays. She shows everyone every single item they own. Toys/clothes etc. She's constantly accepting gifts from strangers!

I know I've followed them and for a long time I had no issue with it. But these kids are not celebrities. They have had their whole lives given to the world to judge. They are not going to live an adult life of luxury. The money will die off eventually. Then all these kids will be left with is the embarrassing reminders that everyone was watching their every move from the day they were born. They are now having to deal with abuse from the public and sue still can't stop because she loves that she can now get her hands on expensive items. I really hope they stop soon for those kids.

As a mum myself I just don't understand how she can do it! Why can't those poor children have anything without her telling the world Sad

I await a hundred posts saying you are too invested in this. But it really was unnecessary stress for her kids. I also don't think sue considers the risks of showing people what you own. Let's hope people don't start attempting to break in more often! That would have been enough for me to stop.

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SonjaMorgan · 25/07/2020 09:04

There was a thread about them a week ago. Lots of posters pointed out problematic behaviour. Then the thread disappeared. I have a lot of issues with the couple and won't watch them.

Family youtubers and family social media accounts should be banned. They are essential selling their children's childhoods and privacy.

GinDrinker00 · 25/07/2020 09:05

YANBU,
That Noel was/is a pedophile. No matter how you want to dress it up. That’s what he is getting her pregnant at 13. So weird how everyone looks the other way over it just because they’re married and decided to carry on having children. They can’t possibly give them all the attention they need, probably why the 18 year old is pregnant.
I just find the whole thing bizzare, no need to constantly have your children plastered over social media all the time.

MissBaskinIfYoureNasty · 25/07/2020 09:06

Her husband should be on some kind of register for getting her pregnant as a child but hey ho, they just gloss over that.

FindingNeeeeemo · 25/07/2020 09:09

I’m another who doesn’t post anything of my children online. Why? Because they get no choice. They are not able to consent

Agree 100%. Nonconsenual photos/videos of people should not be online, and that includes images etc of children too young to consent. I wonder what the next generation will make of their parents plastering them all over the internet for their (the parents') own gain.

Poppiedelight · 25/07/2020 09:10

Yeah. I actually would feel awful if the kids saw this. As it's not nice to read. But sue annoys me so much with her showing off. She really needs to protect those children. Think of what it will be like for them when they are older and every future employer, partner etc has seen everything about them and their home life.

She even did a tour of the house. Maybe her teenagers don't appreciate their bedrooms being shown to everyone. Why does anyone need to see inside all the kids rooms. Perhaps she could have drawn a plan of the house instead Grin

It's sad because you really can see she's more focused on the clothes they are wearing and the toys they have and the items in the home, than she is on education and structure.

I have a son the same age as Archie. I spend so much time with him and he's still very cuddly and needs lots of attention. It makes me sad to think how little he probably gets with two baby girls below him and then the two above him are also girls. He's sort of on his own and I can imagine he's been fending for himself abit attention wise since the one below him came along.

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Viviennemary · 25/07/2020 09:13

Never watched anything about them. How anyone can be lauded for getting pregnant at 13 or 14 beats me.

IAmOptimusPrime · 25/07/2020 09:18

Never watched their stuff but bloody hell can you imagine living next door to all of them 😱

OhTheRoses · 25/07/2020 09:19

Yes it's odd bit weren't they both in care, without good family structures. Might they be running it as a sort of children's home where the children are wanted. Taking into account their own dysfunctional early lives and damage done to them, it isn't bad looked at in that context. If she was 13 it points to an enormous structural issue with the care system rather than issues with them as individuals.

It's an unusual set up bit if there had been involvement with social services, if the dc were ill-treated, didn't go to school, etc, I'm quite sure we would know about it.

MinnieJackson · 25/07/2020 09:26

@OhTheRoses they weren't in care, they were both adopted as babies.

AvocadosBeforeMortgages · 25/07/2020 09:27

I read some comments (being nosey) as to what had happened to her daughter. It turned out the public had written some unkind things about the rabbits and their diet. This had led to one of her younger teens being upset. But it's ok!! Because sue sat with her and read the nice comments out and she felt happier!

Personally I'd say that this should be a prompt to do some more research into rabbits, their housing needs and diet.

Perfect opportunity for the kids to learn to deal with criticism appropriately, do some research, and ensure they're caring for the rabbits in the best way possible.

blurghye · 25/07/2020 09:27

I just find the whole thing bizzare, no need to constantly have your children plastered over social media all the time.

I find it weirder that people watch/follow people who do this.

dottiedodah · 25/07/2020 09:30

I am staggered by Sue being pregnant 22 times! Twice for me was enough .Felt shattered each time TBH .4 or 5 children 6 maybe should be enough for anyone frankly! However there is no law against big families and the children seem loved and well cared for . When I have watched the odd TV show about them they seem happy .I do agree though that the whole family has become a sort of gravy train ,where it has no chance of stopping anytime soon .Children should be free to grow up out of the limelight ,and not feel they have to be filmed for every small detail .People do find large families fascinating which is why they have so many followers/cash I guess!

Poppiedelight · 25/07/2020 09:30

@OhTheRoses

I have wondered the same. It's sad they grew up in care. If they wanted a big family so they felt loved and surrounded then it's come from a place of love hopefully. I would never bully them for their own childhoods being horrible. I think sue is doing what she feels is right and in her mind showering her kids with gifts and treats all the time makes her feel she's giving them an amazing life. I suppose if she was in the care system she perhaps didn't have nice toys and clothes. Again that's so sad.

But it is very unfair to force the kids into this online fame when most are too little to say no or understand. She shows too much to everyone. It's one thing showing her new rabbits on her personal Facebook page. But to show them to her "fans" for pointless compliments like "so cute" or "they look so happy" is just not worth it for the backlash they will get. Her kids really don't need to see and hear constant comments and opinions from others. Those children are not famous but get a crazy amount of attention from strangers. Who knows who these people are. Who knows if they know where they live. Sue doesn't really know who's on her page eyeing up her home. Not everyone in the world is good. We try and protect our children from strangers. She doesn't seem to think anyone could possibly want to break in or be unkind to her family.

It's really sad how nieve sue is.

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GlittercheeksOakleaf · 25/07/2020 09:35

They were adopted as babies into loving families. I'm not sure they were even in the care system.

Poppiedelight · 25/07/2020 09:37

Ah there you go then. So they should have been happy children in that respect. Usually if you are adopted you are in a family who can afford to care for you and give you a great start.

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DontYouKnowPumpItUp · 25/07/2020 09:44

I watch pretty much everything they post! They seem like normal people to me and that's what I like, they are not posh, stick thin, posting about how great they look or how clean their house is!

TheMistressQuickly · 25/07/2020 09:44

Who are they?

LizzieBennett70 · 25/07/2020 09:45

I don't think the family are the issue, it's the people following them and giving them a platform to make money from.

If everyone unfollowed them, problem solved.

People moan like hell about Katie Price, but she's still got millions of followers. Until that changes, she'll still have a platform.

feelingverylazytoday · 25/07/2020 09:45

@Awwlookatmybabyspider

“Noel gives me the creeps”

Me too, let’s not forget this is a man who at 17 got a 13 year old pregnant. There’s a word for that.

Typical mumsnet double standards. A 17 year old would be called a 'vulnerable young girl' on mumsnet, yet a 17 year old male is called a 'man'.
DoolinEnnis · 25/07/2020 09:51

There is another account that shares photos of her children in the bath & sleeping in their beds on a frequent basis (she herself has ended up on An adult site & your vid of her other half waxing her bits). It’s so intrusive on the kids & their lives.

Mummyoflittledragon · 25/07/2020 09:52

@feelingverylazytoday
No babyspider didn’t call him a man at 17. Four years older is huge at that age. My dd is 12. Her friend is 13. If a 16 or 17 yo got them pregnant, it would be horrific.

SchrodingersImmigrant · 25/07/2020 09:52

@feelingverylazytoday you are not wrong.
Also as a paedophile he would look for another young girls not just sticking with one for ever? As far as I understand that's what they do because the child always grows up hence they are not attracted to them anymore so they move to another young victim.

I am not saying what happened was right, but I don't think it's paedophilia...

Bullatagate · 25/07/2020 09:52

*I don't think the family are the issue, it's the people following them and giving them a platform to make money from.

If everyone unfollowed them, problem solved.

People moan like hell about Katie Price, but she's still got millions of followers. Until that changes, she'll still have a platform*

I'm probably too old to get following people on youtube or insta! Especially for things like the radfords going for a picnic or walk....I'd rather go on my own picnic or walk than watch someone else do something that mundane albeit with a small army of children!!
And I've never understood the celeb endorsed stuff like Katie price books/perfume etc or David Beckham whiskey or Nigella cookware...? Who buys it for their name? I think Victoria Beckham once "designed" the interior of a range rover....I cant see how that makes it a more attractive prospect than a standard interior?

Mummyoflittledragon · 25/07/2020 09:53

@DoolinEnnis

There is another account that shares photos of her children in the bath & sleeping in their beds on a frequent basis (she herself has ended up on An adult site & your vid of her other half waxing her bits). It’s so intrusive on the kids & their lives.
Say whaaaaaat?? I don’t follow this family at all. More and more gross and inappropriate.
SchrodingersImmigrant · 25/07/2020 09:55

@DoolinEnnis

There is another account that shares photos of her children in the bath & sleeping in their beds on a frequent basis (she herself has ended up on An adult site & your vid of her other half waxing her bits). It’s so intrusive on the kids & their lives.
😱 Who does that?