I’m currently pregnant with our third baby.
MIL and I get on okay but it’s a very strained relationship due to her treatment of me in the past - I don’t feel I can trust her, feel she is very judgemental of me, would rather her son hadn’t met me etc - you get the gist.
I’ve asked my husband not to share personal details of my midwife appointments with her - absolutely happy for him to say they went well or whatever but I don’t want them discussed in detail with her as they were in my previous pregnancies (which I didn’t like at all - once I walked into my own living room and she was sitting there reading through my notes without asking anyone).
I feel my appointments and what are discussed in them are private and personal.
Husband has agreed but says it has put him in a shitty position to not be able to tell her. AIBU? I can’t change the way I feel. I’m naturally a private person anyway and don’t like my personal business being aired about.