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If dh has deleted search history?

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022828MAN · 24/06/2020 06:51

I just want to preface this by saying that I'm pregnant and have been feeling very sensitive and hormonal recently so this may well be a total reach.

Anyway, I don't make a habit of looking on dh phone at all, I have very little reason to distrust him or feel he's being sneaky so wouldn't usually do this.

A couple of days ago dh was acting a bit quiet and weird, went into the bathroom for a while with his phone and just seemed to be acting strangely. Tried to put it to the back of my mind that it's probably nothing, I asked him if everything was okay and he said he was just on ebay (he does have an online shop on there).

This morning something just came over me whilst I was in the shower to check his phone - I know this is wrong and I'd be really upset if he did this to me. Anyway on his Google search history it was completely clear. I would only think someone would do this if there's something to hide, but maybe people do this frequently for other reasons. Do they? I don't want to say anything as I know I'm in the wrong and literally have no reason to think he's upto no good, other than a weird gut feeling I had a couple of days ago. But that could well just be hormones and over thinking.

Should I be concerned?!

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RightIsRight · 24/06/2020 09:09

I clear my history all the time. It wouldn’t even register with me if DH had cleared his history. Not suspicious in the slightest

BBCONEANDTWO · 24/06/2020 09:10

Thanks a bout the history I don't have safari but will work it out.

idontneedhelpyoudo · 24/06/2020 09:17

i would only think someone would do this if they had something to hide

Is ridiculous.

My iPhone has 63 of 64gb storage used and it's getting on my tits because I can't open anything, I've deleted everything I possibly can.

I deleted my search history and google caches yesterday in an attempt to clear some space as that's what was the next thing taking up a bit of storage.

I have absolutely nothing to hide, if I hadn't deleted it then anybody could have looked at my search history and only found discount code searches and coronavirus news.

It sounds like your issue is with trust. You need to have a frank conversation and deal with that.

FromMarch2020 · 24/06/2020 09:18

I live alone and often clear my search history?

Perhaps some of us do it? I have nothing to hide.

TomNook · 24/06/2020 19:36

Well I just did it you fuckers and it logged me out of everything so I hate you

AdoptedBumpkin · 24/06/2020 19:40

I often do that to free up storage. There might be an innocent explanation.

Whitepriv · 24/06/2020 20:41

I highly expect he’s watching porn and feels kind of guilty about it as you’re pregnant and doesn’t want you to feel any ‘less’. Wouldn’t worry about it

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