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Gooseygoosey12345 · 06/06/2020 22:45

I literally went out earlier to a friend's house to have a socially distanced cuppa. Then I went to do my food shopping. That's all I've done all day: I've had to come home and go to bed because I feel absolutely exhausted. This is a constant thing. I can't go out of my house for more than an hour without feeling absolutely drained when I come home.

I started sorting my garden out the other day for a tip run (shed has just been taken down) and after half an hour I was drained.

I used to be in the gym most days, this isn't normal for me. I feel like I've had flu (I haven't) every time I do even the smallest tasks or activities I'm that exhausted.

I look after myself, eat healthily, don't drink, sleep well etc. What is wrong with me?

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Brakebackcyclebot · 06/06/2020 22:46

Ummm, have you maybe had coronavirus with few symptoms??

Crikey0000 · 06/06/2020 22:48

Covid is a distinct possibility, you should isolate. Hope you feel better soon.

Babyroobs · 06/06/2020 22:49

Maybe you've had the virus mildly but it has left you with this post viral fatigue ? I have a friend who has been severely fatigued for a few months now and is convinced she must have had the virus. I have lots of friends who have been confirmed as having the virus and have been left with overwhelming fatigue for weeks afterwards. It's a very nasty virus as we all know.

wolfmom · 06/06/2020 22:49

I would ask for a thyroid test to rule that out if you can.

borntohula · 06/06/2020 22:51

Maybe just out of the habit of moving around a lot, I'm the same atm.

borntohula · 06/06/2020 22:52

Yeah, or a virus I guess.

Gooseygoosey12345 · 06/06/2020 22:57

I don't think it's coronavirus purely because it's been going on since the end of last year. Unless it started before that which I suppose is a hypothesis.
Thyroid test might be a good shout.
I'd love to think it was just being out of the habit of moving but it's been going on for a while and I've tried for a long time to just push through it thinking I'm unfit but I don't think it'd affect me for this long to that level
Thank you all for the ideas

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BillysMyBunny · 06/06/2020 23:25

Could you be anaemic? My iron levels seem to very easily drop to low levels and I will need a course of iron tablets a couple of times a year.

Going to see your GP and asking for your bloods to be done would be sensible and in the meantime make sure you’re taking a comprehensive vitamin supplement.

Isthisfinallyit · 06/06/2020 23:38

Have you been out in the sun enough for vitamin D? Could you be pregnant? Are you vegsn?

ChangedAgainJune · 07/06/2020 01:22

It's either Vitamin D or Iron deficiency, or your thyroid. Had this last year it turned out vit D. Get yourself one of the private tests (medichecks, thriva- I used both, both are goid) as GP will not be of any use at present. Tests do not cost that much- £70-80. Choose one wihch includes all- vit D, thyroid, iron, and go from there. Good luck!

Kitsandkids · 07/06/2020 05:17

Could you be depressed?

EmperorCovidula · 07/06/2020 05:21

Check iron levels as well, in particular if you get breathless easily.

Gooseygoosey12345 · 07/06/2020 09:35

It's unlikely I'm anaemic, my iron levels are always very high even in pregnancy. I'm not vegan, and definitely not pregnant. I take a good vitamin too.

I think blood tests are the best idea, I'll look into a thyroid, vit D and iron one and go from there. It's just so frustrating.

Aren't there other symptoms with under active thyroid? I haven't gained any weight or anything like that, for instance.

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Gooseygoosey12345 · 07/06/2020 09:36

@Kitsandkids no I'm pretty sure I'm not depressed. I want to go out and do things, it's the exhaustion afterwards that's the issue.

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Gooseygoosey12345 · 07/06/2020 09:37

@Isthisfinallyit I'm outside most of every day, even if it's just reading a book in a chair, but it is England so it could well be vit D

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Gooseygoosey12345 · 07/06/2020 09:38

@EmperorCovidula I don't get breathless luckily. It's more like I can't keep my eyes open, I get a headache and my whole body aches. It's really hard to describe properly. Maybe fatigue is the right word.

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weepingwillow22 · 07/06/2020 09:39

What is your sleep quality like? I am like this when my fitbit records low levels of deep sleep.

Madhairday · 07/06/2020 09:41

It sounds like it could possibly be CFS, OP. Please do go to your GP Flowers

DisplayPurposesOnly · 07/06/2020 09:44

Also consider vit B deficiency.

fairyfingers · 07/06/2020 09:44

I have sub clinical hypothyroidism (ie it's shitey but not shitey enough to treat).

I get a bit tired and achy but not all the time. I get a bit more cold than normal and I find it tough to lose weight but haven't gained and losing is not impossible. So you don't have to have massive symptoms for it to be out of whack.

When I do get tired I get v v tired. But it's fatigue not tiredness. A nap wouldn't sort it, it's bone tiredness and lethargy.

Marnie76 · 07/06/2020 09:44

How old are you OP? Could it be premenopausal symptoms? Blood tests anyway are the way to go

Gooseygoosey12345 · 07/06/2020 10:02

I'm not 30 yet so hope it's not peri menopausal. I still have regular periods so it's unlikely.
I never considered CFS, I'll have to look into it!

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Gooseygoosey12345 · 07/06/2020 10:04

@fairyfingers that sounds very familiar, so definitely worth getting a thyroid check then.
If it's not treated how do you manage it? Surely no one is expected to live their whole life exhausted?

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fairyfingers · 07/06/2020 10:53

Ah I don't feel I like it all the time tbh. I have it in waves do for ages (weeks) I am fine. Better when I exercise/eat well etc. It will get to treatment stage though.

Crimeismymiddlename · 07/06/2020 11:07

It could be over active thyroid-I used to feel like this and thought it was because I am fat! Everything was just effort-however like one pp said it did come in waves and stress made it a lot worse before it got treated.

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