To say something this time?

[squiffyseesaw]

DF gave my sister over twice as much money for her wedding than he did mine. I didn't say anything at the time but I was hurt that we weren't treated fairly.

DF has come into some money and gave my sister his car, which is worth over £5k. He says he will give me £2k to help with some house stuff that needs doing.

I don't care about the amounts. I care that she always gets at least twice as much as me. I don't understand it and I want to ask why. WIBU to do so? Am prepared for being called a grabby little shit but I would honestly rather he gave us both nothing than treat us so differently.

What’s men got to do with it?

I’m a woman 🤷🏻‍♀️

What an irrelevant pointless comment.

Off point a bit but I'm always amazed that the consensus on Mumsnet is adult children always have to be treated exactly equally financially regardless of whether one child is Millionaire and the other is living on the street or if one child beat their parents black and blue and other cooked dinner for their parents every single day.. According to Mumsnet wills must be split equally🤭.. surely that's not true in the real world..

If you're happy to receive less than every other sibling then that's wonderful.. you crack on.. but not everyone agrees with it..

All these handmaidens 😂🤣😂 wake up and smell the dramatics people!!!

She would be so upset and disappointed that we are being treated differently. And I know she would have had my back
THIS is exactly what you need to say to your dad.