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*WIBU* to move my fence back a few inches....

155 replies

TriciaH87 · 01/06/2020 22:00

For reference it would not be taking any land from a neighbouring house. We have wasted land about 5 meters wide behind our house followed by a big hill then a line of trees and then a train track. We purchased a 4meter swimming pool to go into the area behind the shed but we are about 4 inches short on the count of legs need a bit of extra space. When they tell you measurements it should really be for the whole area needed. I have 3 fence posts in my garden would you if you were me move the middle one back a few inches to allow for the pool legs. Our garden at the back slopes and gets shorter from the left to the right if the line had been straight it would of been fine. The land behind cannot be used for building on because its a huge hill follewed by train line so the only time anyone ever goes round there is the maintenance team to strim it every few months or usually me to fetch the bloody football when the kids kick it over which is a 15 minute walk to the area to access it. If I did move my fence back a couple inches should I put in a gate to fetch the ball. Had to go round 3 times today to fetch the bloody thing.

*WIBU* to move my fence back a few inches....
*WIBU* to move my fence back a few inches....
OP posts:
KitchenConfidential · 02/06/2020 15:58

Also why do you have two threads about this?!

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/3926498--WIBU-to-move-my-fence-back-a-few-inches?pg=1

Mangofandangoo · 02/06/2020 16:14

I wouldn't bother, what if the land gets sold and the new owners query it? Agro. Also what if you decide to sell? Agro.

Also, it isn't yours.

TriciaH87 · 02/06/2020 18:30

@KitchenConfidential I accidentally re-posted as when I originally did my phone crashed so I thought it hadn't gone through. Once I found out it had I had no idea how to delete one of them.

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TriciaH87 · 02/06/2020 18:39

We asked when we purchased the house four years ago to make the back a straight line across to the hill at the back. This would have meant purchasing about 5 meters of land back I am latlking less than that in inches. This would be moving one post back a couple inches we are talking about 20 inches of space in total. Moving one panel the bare minimum it can be moved to stop the leg leaning on the fence. I'm not on about the whole back fence. Litteraly moving a panel about an inch back at one side to change the angle so we fit the sodding leg in. I'm talking gaining half a sheet of a4 papers worth of space if that.

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Chandler12 · 02/06/2020 19:10

How would half an a4 piece of paper affect your children’s enjoyment of the garden Confused just move it the other way

BamboozledandBefuddled · 02/06/2020 19:23

This would have meant purchasing about 5 meters of land back I am latlking less than that in inches. This would be moving one post back a couple inches we are talking about 20 inches of space in total. Moving one panel the bare minimum it can be moved to stop the leg leaning on the fence. I'm not on about the whole back fence. Litteraly moving a panel about an inch back at one side to change the angle so we fit the sodding leg in. I'm talking gaining half a sheet of a4 papers worth of space if that.

Still illegal but you obviously don't care. I hope you get caught.

notapizzaeater · 02/06/2020 19:23

Surely if you've filled it, it's not going anywhere ?

TriciaH87 · 02/06/2020 22:06

It's pushing the fence out I need to create space so it doesn't knock the fence panel over due to the weight against it

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TriciaH87 · 02/06/2020 22:08

@Chandler12 so I should move it into my neighbours garden? That my neighbour uses? I cannot move it further left as its against the fence. There is no room to move it right because of the slope in the fence. If there was no slope in the fence it wouldn't even be an issue.

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Chandler12 · 02/06/2020 22:12

No you should buy things that fit the property you own Confused turn it the other way you’re going to compromise your kid’s space yes but that’s the choice you made when you bought it

1Morewineplease · 02/06/2020 22:13

Why did you decide to buy a monstrosity so big?
You don’t deserve an extra few inches.
You should have done your calculations first.
You cannot pinch a few inches of someone else’s land, irrespective of how that land is owned or kept.

mumwon · 02/06/2020 22:17

adverse possession laws changed in 2003 (don't ask) & as they have already told you no -you cant just take it - & as they are a big company with more money than you it might be unwise to put yourself in that position -

Thisismytimetoshine · 02/06/2020 22:18

@Chandler12 so I should move it into my neighbours garden?
No, just move it elsewhere in your own bloody garden! Confused What is wrong with you that you think this is someone else's problem to solve for you?

runningon · 02/06/2020 23:38

It's not wasteland. It's a green area full of trees/bushes/habitat.

Your yard looks so sterile, and offers nothing compared to the above.

I hope if you move that fence it comes back to bite you on the arse!

redastherose · 03/06/2020 00:23

Title plans aren't detailed enough for anyone to say that you've moved a fence 4-6 inches. So long as it's not obvious (ie if your fence just out when no one else's does) no one is likely to know. I would contact the builder and ask if they have any objections to you installing a gate to allow you to collect stray footballs and if they say no simply realign your fence slightly while doing that. Otherwise just morphed the fence post you need to move as little as possible so it's not obvious.

asnugglysnerd · 03/06/2020 08:03

You’re talking about moving it back to increase the size of your garden on to land you don’t own.

Theft. Illegal. And just really weird to even consider. It isn’t yours to take even if it will never be used

However, you’ve clearly made your mind up to do it so posting on here was pointless... but you want people to tell you that you’re right to do so and justify stealing land, which is essentially what you’re doing, even if it is only 6 inches.

EnlightenedOwl · 03/06/2020 08:11

Sounds like a wildlife corridor but hey go ahead take what isnt yours. Hope someone brings an enforcement against you

Floatyboat · 03/06/2020 08:19

Its not that trivial to actually move a fence. Would you do it yourself?

joystir59 · 03/06/2020 08:20

The temperature has dropped and it's going to rain for the foreseeable future where we live, so I'd take the pool back and get a refund.

heartsonacake · 03/06/2020 09:31

It’s quite clear OP doesn’t care that it’s not her land and is going to go ahead and do it anyway because she doesn’t want her ridiculous oversized pool choice to affect her being in her garden.

horizontilting · 03/06/2020 09:46

Isn't the pool going to be ripped/damaged by the fence? It's surely meant to have clearance on all sides. You'd void any warranty by the way you have it now. Just turn it.

choosesoap · 03/06/2020 16:06

you'll get adverse possession a few years down the line. I come across this fairly frequently working for a developer / land owner. if it's pretty much no mans land and we havent tried to resolve the issue previously by asking you to move the fence back , we just dont bother even contacting the homeowner to resolve it, and that's for land grabs of 1m plus never mind a few inches. if its a problem they will spot it and ask you to change it -you will just have to be prepared to do this.

Thisismytimetoshine · 03/06/2020 17:11

It's not no man's land, it's owned by the development company who not only maintain the land, but have refused an offer to sell.

SoupDragon · 03/06/2020 17:25

They refused an offer to sell the whole 5m.

Thisismytimetoshine · 03/06/2020 17:31

True, but they're unlikely to give it away, inch by inch. Why should they? As they maintain the area any minor adjustments to fences will be glaringly obvious.