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*WIBU* to move my fence back a few inches....

155 replies

TriciaH87 · 01/06/2020 22:00

For reference it would not be taking any land from a neighbouring house. We have wasted land about 5 meters wide behind our house followed by a big hill then a line of trees and then a train track. We purchased a 4meter swimming pool to go into the area behind the shed but we are about 4 inches short on the count of legs need a bit of extra space. When they tell you measurements it should really be for the whole area needed. I have 3 fence posts in my garden would you if you were me move the middle one back a few inches to allow for the pool legs. Our garden at the back slopes and gets shorter from the left to the right if the line had been straight it would of been fine. The land behind cannot be used for building on because its a huge hill follewed by train line so the only time anyone ever goes round there is the maintenance team to strim it every few months or usually me to fetch the bloody football when the kids kick it over which is a 15 minute walk to the area to access it. If I did move my fence back a couple inches should I put in a gate to fetch the ball. Had to go round 3 times today to fetch the bloody thing.

*WIBU* to move my fence back a few inches....
*WIBU* to move my fence back a few inches....
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TriciaH87 · 01/06/2020 23:59

The pool is on the paved area of the garden. The fence is at an angle so it gets narrower as you go from left to right. Pool is as far left as it can go. The pool is pushing on the fence a couple inches would stop it damaging the fence. Can't push it over further and the garden is so uneven I can't put it on both path and grass. If it goes on grass only it's still not level. Basically I either move panel back a couple inches or need to level the whole garden for the sake of a couple inches because they angled our back fence. I would rather put in a couple new post and bang in one or 2 extra bits of fence cladding to cover the gap.

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Brassicas · 02/06/2020 00:02

Could you add another line of slabs to your paved area?

TriciaH87 · 02/06/2020 00:03

@Rubyred24 the ladder will go at the front of the pool along the side that is open. It's literally the support leg of the pool causing the issue.

The land owner(development company) never go round because its useless. The maintenance team only go round every couple months. Had we not pointed out it wasn't getting done we would of just done it because in the 4 years we have owned the house they had been out twice. Maybe I just cut a gap in my fence so the pool leg can sit through it.

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TriciaH87 · 02/06/2020 00:13

@brassicas we have a full row of slabs that it's not touching. I cannot move it over because the garden narrows. See image. P is pool s shed g grass. The pool has space in top left corner but is pushing fence on top right corner. This could damage the fence.

*WIBU* to move my fence back a few inches....
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TinyPigeon · 02/06/2020 00:54

I'd do it 🤷‍♀️

Porridgeoat · 02/06/2020 05:18

Buy a smaller pool?

MooseBeTimeForSummer · 02/06/2020 05:30

I was just about to post what Porridgeoat did!

Tlollj · 02/06/2020 06:12

Yeah I would. If any body moans you’ll have to move it back and rethink but I doubt any one will.

Mummyoflittledragon · 02/06/2020 06:14

You have already been refused and this would be stealing land. You wouldn’t infringe on someone else’s garden. Why is it more acceptable to do this just because it is wasteland? How would you feel if the owner decided to nab a bit of your garden? It is exactly the same thing.

eaglejulesk · 02/06/2020 06:17

It doesn't matter what the land is used for, it's not your land. You can't simply take a few inches of it because you want to!!

IHateCoronavirus · 02/06/2020 06:28

I’m another one for no. It isn’t yours to take. It isn’t the land owner’s problem that you have a pool which will take up your grass. Decide which is more valuable to you as a family, pool or grass and act accordingly. Or as pp have suggested get the next size down.

ittakes2 · 02/06/2020 06:52

From where the support posts are ie on your side of the garden it looks like your fence - just do what you suggested in a recent post ie stick the legs through the fence and see if the railway company do something. Worse case scenario you revert and fix fence. You also don’t need to put in a gate to get ball just put up football ball netting that looks like what they have on golf courses. Google on amazon.

BovaryX · 02/06/2020 06:55

It is not your land. Why do you think you have the right to annexe it?

Firstawake · 02/06/2020 06:55

You know that's theft.
Would it be OK if your neighbour moved their fence on to your land?
Stop talking yourself into it, you will more than likely be reported and prosecuted.

Wagamamas · 02/06/2020 07:00

Principally its not your land. You would be breaking the law and morally its selfish and wrong. Measure properly next time.

Nacreous · 02/06/2020 07:05

I'd put the leg through the fence if it's your fence. That way all you need to do is remove the leg at a later date.

Tsubasa1 · 02/06/2020 07:10

YABU dont do it

CharmerLlama · 02/06/2020 07:15

What are your neighbours like? Are they likely to snitch on you if they see what you're doing? Personally if it's only an inch or two I'd enquire with the housing developers and hope they agree.

Rowantree2020 · 02/06/2020 07:28

I see though why you’re trying to hide it behind the shed. Maybe just put the pool on the wasteland - problem solved.

SimpleKindofLife · 02/06/2020 07:32

A few inches?? Do it. It's not a permanent structure and you won't be adversely affecting anyone.

LivingThatLockdownLife · 02/06/2020 07:37

Make your patio bigger!

Easier than faffing with a fence which you'd have to move the pool away to access anyway plus being super illegal.

A few patio stones aren't expensive.

STAYTHEFUCKHOME · 02/06/2020 07:47

[quote TriciaH87]@brassicas we have a full row of slabs that it's not touching. I cannot move it over because the garden narrows. See image. P is pool s shed g grass. The pool has space in top left corner but is pushing fence on top right corner. This could damage the fence.[/quote]
And the award for the worst diagram goes to....

christmassausages · 02/06/2020 07:59

Check the deeds of your house and actually measure the distance from the back of your house to the fence just to make sure the fence is in the correct place. You could find that it is actually not at the correct distance and then you could move the fence back a couple of inches. If the fence is in the correct place then ywbu to move it onto land that does not belong to you.

TreeTopTim · 02/06/2020 08:00

Surely your neighbours would notice you moving the fence. They might think that because you are doing it they can too or they may report you to the housing developers.

mummmy2017 · 02/06/2020 08:17

Cut a hole at the bottom and just let the leg sit on their land.
The weeds should hide that from them.
But do not move the fence, they can and will take you to court and win.